We Love Temptations but are looking to try a new place. We are not into the total nude scene but She loves the topless. Is Desire mostly Nude or Topless? Thank you for your help
There are a percentage of people that are completely node, but there are plenty that are only topless. She can do whatever she is comfortable with. There is no pressure to go completely nude if she does not want to. If she opposed to seeing people in the nude, Desire won’t be great. If she is comfortable seeing others, but doesn’t want to be nude herself, it is fantastic. Daytime in the pool, there is a high percentage of topless only. In the hot tubs, there are quite a few more in the nude.
I had the same question... thanks for the reply! Also, if we are not "lifestyle" per se, will we still fit in? We are definitely up for sexy times (exhibitionism, voyeurism, flirting, etc) and may approach a LS type situation if it is the right feel (have discussed it a lot together, and would go with the flow if in the right dynamic)...
From our experience, and I am going to make a generalized statement because there are always exceptions, we were never pressured to participate in anything we did not want to. If you want to just be together in a sexy environment, people will leave you alone. Now, they may inquire as to your interest, but they won’t push. If you want to be social, you will have to put yourself out there because most people will assume you want to be left alone if you do not. We had some great experiences at Desire and met amazing people. Now there are always exceptions. I have heard stories of people being aggressive or inappropriate or unwanted, all you have to do is talk to the staff and they will take care of it. Their goal is to make everyone comfortable and want to be there.
