After reading it again with the humor part of my brain (and not the serious part), I understand you much better now.
Because you enjoy the being able to stand/sit there and watch your hot wife dancing next to you for hours at a time while slowly putting more and more of the skimpy lingerie that Was on her in Your pocket, day after day after day. So, far, TTR and the Desires are the only places in the world I've found you can do that. Addicting.
There's nowhere else in the world that you can see this king of depravity and feel good about it, but as far as being able to talk about anything to a random stranger...I'm in the same zone as you are! The openness of most of this crowd is unbelievable. There's no other place where people talk to everyone without judgement about anything, whether it be sexual, lifestyle, business, money or politics, individually or in the same sentence, and it all seems to fit. I've told many that I hated snobs and this is one of the reasons I'm addicted to this place...people do talk to each other! The talking + the sexy + the lifestyle + seeing your wife enjoying every minute.... all adds up to the best place to be. So far none are better!