We are currently booked for Temptation in September, but are thinking of changing to Desire due to the more laid back during the day party at night that we have been reading about. What we are wanting is a sexy push the envelope type vacation, with some relaxation thrown in. We are not in the lifestyle, however are a very open minded couple. I am not sure if the party atmosphere is 24/7 non stop at Temptation and would offer no relaxation time. We just want a good mix of sexy, flirty, party, and relaxation. Any opinions would be welcomed.
You don’t have to constantly party at TTR . Grab a lounger on the beach or by the quiet pool and take a nap and save your energy for the evenings .
TTR gives you what you put in .. so if you want a relaxing day .. hit the quiet pool , relax a bit I know people that like the people watching at the sexy pool but don't party they pick one of the side areas and relax You don't have to party 24/7 there are other things to do .. they have paddle boards ..and the little boat you can take out .. walk the beach .. if you have access the sky pool is mostly quiet during the day not many people up there unless there is a thing going on we haven't been to Desire .. so I can't offer any advice on what it is like
If money isn’t an issue and you don’t mind being naked, definitely Desire. If it is an issue, or you have a problem with nudity then do TTR.
Desire is not just a mellower TTR. It's a bona-fide lifestyle resort, with lots of nudity, lots of swingers, and at Desire RM at least, quite a bit of partying. Based on what you have written, TTR seems better suited for you. It's not 24/7 party, and there are days when we are not up to partying and find plenty of relaxing things to do.
We are in the same exact boat as you guys...your question answered some of ours .... We are going in September as well, first time for us. Be there the 4-12th.
Money isn't an option, and we don't mind the nudity, or sex, as long as we can go at our own pace regardless of what is going on around us.
Well then you should go to Desire. It is much nicer, the party is more inclusive but at the same time more centralized. And the service, drinks and food are better. We’ve been to both multiple times, and we prefer Desire exponentially. Another thing we prefer is the no singles and no cameras. You could also do a split trip like we always do. We will be doing TTR for 3 days then to Desire pearl.
