We are heading to DM March 24-30, 2021. This will be our first time at Desire. We were at Temptations a year ago. Anyone else heading there during this time? We can’t wait!
We plan to be there March 28 — April 1: so a little overlap with your dates. It's our first time at that resort and are really looking forward to it! (Not "in the lifestyle", if that matters.)
Well than, some might say you ARE in the lifestyle, but just at a different level. There are many levels and folks are on different journeys. I expect you mean you are monogomous!
I have to disagree as I have discussed this with many from a sociological perspective... seriously. For some yes, for many no the definition is clear. Yes, many here equate the terms LS or Swingers. And many do not. Here might be why... First many hate labels and being thrown into a category and having to wear society’s “Scarlet Letter” with the connotation of weirdo or freak. Most agree if you are a Swinger, or into Swinging than this means you are having sex (intercourse) with other people. But the definition of LS varies due to the many disciplines involved...to name a few...just like being around the energy and people, like to watch, be watched, public sex, oral only (with or without “dental dam (protection) and with or without ejaculations (cum or squirting) intercourse both with and without (bare back) condom, anal (same), girl on girl, not too much guy on guy with heterosexual couples, orgies, soft swap, full swap, same/different bed/room, friends or strangers...the list goes on. Also, many are on a journey and come and go. Some believe that unless it is intercourse than it is not LS. So we can agree, disagree, or continue the debate. Makes no difference, people are people and you can choose to associate with whom you please. There is no right or wrong, especially at places like TTR and Desires.
So, did you have a good time? We ended up not mingling much, but we both loved it. We're planning to visit again next winter...