Newbie! 50 Year Old Solo Male. Should I Go?

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  1. funitis

    funitis Newbie Registered Member

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    Hi! I'm going to be in Cancun November 20 - 23 and am considering Temptation. I was there YEARS ago, so have a basic understanding of the scene and love it. Question is, will a 50 year old single male traveler seem out of place?? I'm outgoing, love different types of people, well traveled with various interests, but don't want to come across as a creeper either! Would love feedback from those who have been before.
     
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    respectful enough to ask the question...... you'll do just fine. go have fun
     
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    You’d have a great time. There’s nothing creepy about a single guy at Temptation. We always wind up making friends with a few singles on each trip. I think most people who have a problem with single guys feel that way because of their own relationship insecurities and jealousy issues. Are there occasional creepers at the resort? Sure there are...but there are creepers at your local bars and clubs, and the grocery store and gym at home too. Go and have fun!
     
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    FakeNewsTeam It's a matter of time, but time is all we have! Registered Member

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    The BC always need a good creeper or two!
     
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    I'm 58 and will be there in a week, single, for my 9th time post reno. Went 4 times as a couple pre reno and was still a bit anxious the 1st time I went alone. That went away within 15 mins of being at the Sexy Pool. When you get there head to the swim up bar, grab a drink, and start introducing yourself and striking up conversations. The first thing you will notice is everyone is so friendly and willing to make new friends, especially the veteran guests and members who get the vibe. Hope you decide to go. You will have a great couple days. If there are any questions I can help you with feel free to PM me.
     
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  6. funitis

    funitis Newbie Registered Member

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    Thanks for the feedback! I welcome any more tips to fit in. I hope to have lots of fun there!
     
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    Stacia_and_John T&A Tour Guide Registered Member

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    Exactly, so Sarah69 can isolate, punish and humiliate them.

    Of course, we've talked to a couple of the creepers after Sarah had her way with them and the consistently report it was the best day they had, ever. Odd, that.
     
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    funitis Newbie Registered Member

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    Who is this sarah69?!? LOL
     
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    The first time I went as single and I had a blast.
     
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    I've done the BC single so many times now Chinos/Sarah69/Omar usually try to pick on the newbie creepers before they pull me in. I always volunteer my "services" if they need me and am more then willing to play my part. Either way it's always one of the highlights of the vacation.
     
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