I think a blanket statement before the act.... Is it okay if I touch you? I want to ensure I don’t cross any boundaries.. Almost foolproof except some want to be ok with touching till it occurs. I don’t remember a female hand jockey being at Temptation when we have been there.
Sounds good in principal, but add alcohol and sexy environment - that typically goes out the window. I know we've never "asked" or been "asked" directly - although we don't get so drunk we can't read people and feel the vibe. Can't say the same for some others and it's never been singles. It's either the husband or the wife that doesn't get it and crosses the line. In any case, you deal with it quickly and firmly and move on to fun peeps.
Simple solution. After ( or maybe before???) the liquor takes its effect, hand cuff her hands behind her back and put a gag in her mouth. Unfortunately, you will have to hold her cup as she drinks from a straw. Seriously, we have a female friend with a similar “attribute” of which we understand. It can still be uncomfortable, for me (us) but especially for her husband. And my wife is highly offended by her actions (as a typical male, I kinda like it). For strangers, it might not go so well. Funny thing is, she has no recall that it happened...seriously. Totally blackout drunk. And you know what they say...if you cannot recall it, it didn’t really happen. Even with photographic and video evidence
