Hands Off Or On

We'd get over it, I'd just tell her to stop it if it became a problem. Everyone is way to sensitive.

 

hard to know without a picture to be honest.

 

How did she / you respond to the person / couple that got very upset?

 

Honest truth right there...it's a double standard, but I'm ok with it.

 

You need to know your audience!! First timers might be offended but regulars....Game on!!!!

 

She apologized for upsetting the spouse and explained that it was just friendly flirting and that’s the kind of person she is. After that we all had a shot of tequila and all was forgotten. She just doesn’t like upsetting people and now is more concerned that someone will take it wrong

 

More than likely, many couples will consider being too touchy-feely with the guy half of a couple to be disrespectful. Many couples are not in the lifestyle, and every lifestyle couple has their unique guidelines they follow. It’s not a good idea to touch anyone without permission just because they’re dressed sexy. When in doubt...ask first.

 

Hubby and I both received unsolicited attention a lot!! we always take it in stride! Try no to ruin anyone's fun (theirs or ours). We have become professionals at avoiding that person if we are uncomfortable or just not in the mood at the time!! But I totally agree with most of the others it is all in the way that she goes about it!!!

 

Agree completely. During our last trip, several people - us included - employed evasion tactics in response to handsy single guys and drunk gals. Good times though .

 

Double standards keep life interesting, I find. I mean... only one standard is boring and very predictable.