I feel there’s a huge difference between a large group of guys who come together and the handful of singles, both men and women who vacation alone. They’re just not the same thing at all. We’ve met many great single guys over the years, and certainly there are some very long time CancunCare members who have always come alone. For most, single guys never get in the way of a couple’s ability to have a good time or to dress sexy at the resort. Those large groups of obnoxious guys aren’t the norm, and usually security sets the tone for them before it gets out of hand. Temptation has couples only sister resorts, and I don’t believe they’ll ever go to couples only...nor should they, in our opinion.
We love TTR. The vibe, the party, the people. Haven’t been to Desire, but it seems a little more laid back than what we are looking for. We almost did a day pass this year to check it out but didn’t. Are you suggesting that because we aren’t looking for single guys to party with and hook up with then we should try a different resort? Strange. TTR is the best. The amount of single guys that usually attend isn’t a deal breaker for us. Replace 100 couples with single guys? It might be. Again for us it’s simple—less single guys the better.
Just to add to this a little, my last trip 3 weeks ago I met another single woman there and we hung out all week with couples and other singles that were there. My first morning there I was asked by a couple to join them for breakfast and no expectations on from either of us. As mentioned above Desire resorts are couples only. The sexy pool is where everyone can feel sexy just not the ladies.
We found, yes there are couples looking for the single males. They are there ‘if respectful’ and available. What we found however is a different experience. We aren’t looking for single guys, just out option! Sorry guys! But what we found is them staring - circling - like vultures. As soon as the man / men went for a beer / bathroom break, they’d move in like a vulture. Not good. Why not speak to both of us? Why not bring us a shot each say hi? We are after all a couple? Completely disrespecting that you’re a couple, and that thinking you’re going to get ‘something’, god knows what? While the wifey is alone for 5/10 minutes, completely baffles us? It’s a strange environment that 90% of guys will fail in, however like the gent before us said, if you’re respectful, maybe met a lady / couple online here before hand and socialised with them, good on you, that’s what the couple want. Just gents, respect the ‘couple’ we’re a couple and 95% of the people are couples there, they and we do not want vultures moving in on our partners whilst they are left alone for a few minutes, it’s creepy. Just out 2 pennies worth. And maybe some good advice for the creepers that made it feel uncomfortable for us. We know you’re not all the same
They advertise on their website “Playground for Grownups “ this to me means all grownups not just couples. As someone stated above they had issues since 2011 so this has been going on since before the renovations. Perhaps the percentage of single males differs from month to month and perhaps if the single males visited websites like this they would be more informed. Bottom line is that the ones are being aggressive. and creepy have no respect for others in first place probably. It doesn’t make it right but not sure how the resort can fix the problem.
