What is this Shit Show stuff? A smaller group of partiers or something? Wife and I are complete newbs, never been to Temptation before. Going for our first visit next month the 9-16th. Trying to figure all this stuff out so we're not walking around like deer in headlights when we get there.
Just a way to bring people together.....many months have repeaters that go and eventually they just give the week they go a name. With or without the shitshow, Temptation is awesome, but with it, when you go to Temptation u will already know a few people, and there will always be a few hanging out together at the pool or at bash so u always have somewhere to go. This will be our 4th trip during the same week which is nothing compared to many people. Whether its ur first time or 10th time, everyone is welcomed the same. You will be getting there right at the beginning of the No Bra Club group. They dont have much posted on here but they are a crazy bunch of awesome fuckers. Huge group of people that will welcome you all the same. You are in for an awesome time. Lookin forward to partying with u both for a few days....see u on the 14th!!
Sounds like a good time, is there a way to link up with all these people or does everyone pretty much just meet by chance at the pool during the day? We're also thinking of doing the Boobs Cruise too. Any preference for the Monday vs Friday outings? I'm thinking we'll be pretty dead by Friday the 15th.
Definately do the monday one. It's the perfect chance to meet people and set the tone for ur trip. Last time we were there someone brought a giant inflatable penis to keep by the pool so everyone knows where we are posted up. The sexy pool is bigger than before the renos but it wont take much to locate everyone.
Oh shit...ya...that changes things....totally forgot you guys and @tknitez couple were on the 15th one.
Hey guys, Wally here, part of the shit show. Were totally going to miss you guys as we are on the tail end of the show from Feb 20-27, but there is nothing wrong with bringing up the rear *grin Brent summed up the group a lot in his post, I feel he left some things out though, so ill touch a bit on both. A little bit of a read, sorry for that. This is our third trip since 2014, and we have some of these people on our face book. Yup there welcome to come to Canada and stay in my house. Because there fucking amazing. Your going to meet people that you just want to stay in touch with. We all tend to travel the same weeks. So week 6-7-8 seems to be mine and zebras preference to brake up the winter here. I'm going to be very honest here, and anyone else can chime in too. No filters in our group. First, no expectations of anything, your not required to participate, you can sit back and watch the shit happen, or you can be part of it, the choice is 100% yours. A lot of wild things happen here. The deer in the head lights is a little to be expected, honestly. Your going to see things, lots of things that you never see anywhere else. Don't be surprised, and if its not your thing, bow out gracefully and then watch hehe. 1) Boobs, Temptation is topless optional, 21+ only, but not required, so your going to see boobs, all kinds of shapes sizes and colors. I actually get boobed out in most cases by the end hahaha, i know its silly. Its true though. 2) Fully see through at the pool, there are so many bikini options that a lot of them are less than nothing, zero complaints here. The men do semi see through too, dont be afraid of a penis hahaha. 3) Games, sometimes the games at the pool get wild, at least they did back in the day. Where people end up naked running around the pool. This is only allowed during game time, its not a nude resort. Tequila volly ball, tequila janga, Wally bringing 50 wet pussy shots to pass out in the group around the pool (its how you make friends), yup, just like my avatar. Sometimes ill pour the end one, in your wife's mouth. Symbolism much? Yeah shes hot, but shes yours 4) Theme nights, we as a group take the hotel theme nights and make them more crazy, more wild, more naked, more fun. Body paint, fuck yes. 5) The drinks are flowing, a lot, know your limits. 6) The sun, its mexican sun, and its mexican tequila, sunscreen and water are your friends. 7) Crazy wild things, inflatable penises, real dildos (giant ones that scare me) jello wrestling (2013 hehe), whip cream shots off of peoples bodies that you have never met. 8) sometimes the resort is slippery with the tiles and water, be cautious. 9) Don't be afraid to talk to anyone, everyone we have ever met (except 2) are awesome. 10) Theme nights, participate like never before!! If you dont dress up, now is a chance to do it, to participate beyond anything you would ever do at home. The women in our lives work so very hard to make this so amazing for us, from a show standpoint, from a sexy standpoint. Help them, let them know how beautiful they are and that you love them. Spend time shopping for yourself so you can participate, do it together and I can promise you that you will learn new things about your partner. 11) Advantage of this group, that you can share chairs, you can share space, you can leave your stuff under my chair and it SHOULD be safe, we all look after each other, our stuff, our spouses and partners, etc. Were a fucking team, a group of doers!! 12) no expectations ever, its super casual, and very simple. "Hey want to go for dinner tonight?, Na Wally were going with blah blah to SHE sorry we already have plans, OK bud see you tonight at bash!" No hard feelings, no expectations, its all cool. Even if we have been hanging out at the pool all day. (shit even if we had sex the night before, its all good!) THIS BRINGS ME TO THE UNSPOKEN, except I'm going to speak it. Shit happens. 1) your going to get hit on, as a man, by a man, from a man, oh so is your wife \ spouse \ girlfriend. Its an open atmosphere, its sexually charged, its crazy. If you guys are into the lifestyle or swinging at all its all there. If you want it, you don't have to participate, and if you do get approached just kindly say that's not for us, but thank you. If your curious you can do the same and just ask questions. If your going to "TRY" it, be with someone that can show you the ropes and respect where you guys are at. Sometimes you just never know where you are going, till your there. 2) Sex, your going to see it on balconies on occasion, in hot tubs in the evenings sometimes, your for sure going to hear it, because I leave my door open on purpose. No its not the TV, in most cases 3) On occasion but extremely rare you will run into a very aggressive person or couple that cant hold their drinks and are just a bunch of assholes. Separate yourself from the drama, enough said about that. 4) Theme nights, Everyone dresses very provocatively, this does not mean that they want your advances, or touching. DO NOT TOUCH THEM, unless you ask. Women get touched like 147 times on average every 47 minutes, that's more than 40 times an hour, by gropy hands. And some of them are well....not cool. (There was a recent study on it in 2018) I'm guilty of it myself, when your in a bar crowded and you are on your way to the bar, you tend to touch people on the way, this lets them know you want pass when you cant talk because the music is loud. There is a difference in what I'm talking about here. I totally did not talk about the Boobs Cruise on purpose, take everything I said above here and times it by 10. Its a different world, one you need to experience for yourself. And I dont want to take anything away from your experience. Boobs Cruise ON! Man that's a long post, thanks for letting me write it, and avoid work for 45 minutes. Did I miss anything? Na, the rest, its all easier now. I hope you guys have the best trip of your lives, and see you next year Man I wish Steve would make some of my posts sticky. I even built a newbie one that I should bump hahaha. Lots of love everyone!
I think that is solid advice to go on whichever cruise comes first in your trip though. At least that seems to be the general consensus on the forum.....
Hey everyone, anyone done a room crawl or hosted one in the February shit show week? I know Leni used to have people over, I never went.....Anyone else? I'm curious, Been to a lot of rooms in my day, seen some things in my day, done some things in my day. So this sounds like some fun to me.....
10) Theme nights, participate like never before!! If you dont dress up, now is a chance to do it, to participate beyond anything you would ever do at home. The women in our lives work so very hard to make this so amazing for us, from a show standpoint, from a sexy standpoint. Help them, let them know how beautiful they are and that you love them. Spend time shopping for yourself so you can participate, do it together and I can promise you that you will learn new things about your partner. Wally, This is the most important part of your post in my opinion. We are still yet to arrive for our first trip but I love the vibe on this forum that the most important reason that folks go to TTR is to make our wives feel sexy and desired. I'm sure that I can speak for a lot of us men when I say that after (insert #) years of marriage that some of that fun, new feeling can slowly fade. It isn't intentional, life just has a way of doing it when you get in a rhythm of repeativeness. Having said that, for Dani and I our #1 priority is our relationship. The party, the boobs, and all the other crazy stuff that may happen is simply a way to get us in the mindset of thinking and talking about things that typically don't come up in normal everyday life. Too bad we will miss you all as we will have left by the time you arrive. I guess there is always next year
