Hi: Can you share a hot tub hot experience. This will be our second visit and are curious about it. On first visit we didn’t got into it.
Wife and I went in the HT after the sexxxy pool last trip. She sat right next to me. It was full. We talked with a lot of people. The water was not hot. We got out after an hour to go to the bathroom. Came back in. Stayed another 1/2 HR maybe then left for our room. The end.
We were in the hot tub most every afternoon/early evening during two trips. This is what we saw. Most every time there was a girl getting fingered. Probably never any out right sex, but pretty close. Pretty sure a quick blow job. Completely naked happened many times. Lots of girl on girl kissing. Lots of couples kissing other couples. Last trip some lady brought nipple clamps. The hot tub was very full. 95% participation of everyone getting them yanked off. Fun afternoon.
Yikes ... the water wasn't hot? Seems like that make take away from the relaxing/open vibe of things a little no?
We just got back last night from our trip... We tried the hot tub 3 nights during our stay and it was good and bad. The water was hot enough that we had to stand or sit on the edge after awhile to cool off. The temp of the tub was great this time of the year as we stayed in it during a down pour and still enjoyed ourselves. The sexual vibe is magnified in the tub being almost everyone is well into their drinks.. .. Ok, here's where I need to emphasize that this trip was heavy with singles and many were inebriated assholes. Sure there were some fantastic people that we met and spoke with in the tub (singles as well), though there was an absolute environment of sexual vultures with no respect. Leaving the wife in the tub to get drinks or use the bathroom was taken as opportunity for guys to try.... (We're not new to the environment so there's no question to not mess with the wife like a scavenger when I'm away from the tub for a second).. If you move from your seat to get a drink, some asshole is going to take it and a confrontation is not going to end well. We don't have the energy for this and after trying on the third night to find a good vibe, we just left the tub. The last thing we want is bullshit on our time to have fun. We still found ways to have fun and just accepted that the hot tub is what it is....at least with the population that was there when we were. I hope everyone enjoys the hot tub when they're there without the problems we had.
Bummer @ChandiAr ! Hope you will stillbe back to TTR and will try the hot tub again. It sounds as if there were just alot of buttheads visiting during your stay.
With all due respect, I think this post is misconstrued. We have been here since Sunday and while there have been one or two misguided singles, for the most part they are behaved. Here is the thing, if you come here, you have to expect men and sometimes females will hit on you, if you have trouble with that then it will make for a difficult trip.
Been around a long time and there is a big difference between getting hit on and being a scavenger, ascavenger is someone that doesnt have the balls to come to a girl untill her hubby walks away, and yes it happens everywhere because so many “ think” they know about swingers and swinging but have no fukin clue...
I would agree with this very much. If your not man enough to talk to the husband and everyone be on the same page then its not cool. In 2014 i was with a woman in the pool for hours, and I would have very much taken things to the next level, her husband was never around. When I asked she said it was fine, but I don't "swing" that way. She eventually told me he was watching from the bar. And I'm cool with that, as long as he knows what is going on. Never did we talk, Never did we play.....Now that I am more educated, I would go to him myself and say hello, just to put him at ease. Lets see what 2019 brings in the shit show hehe. The cool part: I'm not after your wife, I have a wife. I'm after a good time, as long as everyone is! The women are not after a husband they have a husband, there after a good time, as long as everyone is. The singles...well there after a good time, and they don't care much. (not all are like this though) Now I have been in the other shoes, @ChandiAr, I get it for sure! Your guard goes up right away and puts you on edge, then your not having a relaxing good time. While our wives are big enough to take care of them selves, our presence puts them at ease. I have zero issue putting anyone in their place, in the proper way, it can be an open conversation and a moment to educate a single. Oh the hot tub....its always a place of debauchery. Cant wait!
Yes indeed. My wife knows how to defend herself and kick ass both in a polite and not so polite way. In many cases alcohol is the blame for the agressiveness of others. Especially for those whom are ignorant of the code or rules. No is no and that is the end of it. She has her big girl panties on...wait she doesn’t wear panties...but I hope you understand. Beware of your nuts you offenders out there! I come in when they don’t get the message or an “attitude correction” is required. And I do know how to kick ass in a nice way as well as a not so nice way. If you know me, I think you most likely agree. This in no way is a threat but just the facts. Of course I do not want to spend/end my vacation in MX pound me in the ass jail nor have to pay a “fee” to get out of jail. Security will do their job if alerted and are friends of those not offending other guests.
