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My wife not as open minded should I book us temptations?

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by Irishcouple84, Dec 4, 2018.

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Pavel said: ↑

OP is an Irishcouple, not Pavel
I just was giving advises . We've been to Desire, Hedo and coming for 1st time to Temptation
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We've been to Cancun 9 times and I tried to get my wife to TTR on trip #1 and she said NO WAY! Well we've been to Temptation the last 4 visits and she absolutely loves it. It just took us a few years to work our way into it. Now I'm working on Desire....wish me luck!!!

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Boilercpl said: ↑

We've been to Cancun 9 times and I tried to get my wife to TTR on trip #1 and she said NO WAY! Well we've been to Temptation the last 4 visits and she absolutely loves it. It just took us a few years to work our way into it. Now I'm working on Desire....wish me luck!!!
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It's tricky .... We've been twice to Desire RM and my wife liked it , Last May we went to Hedo .... and I have impression that my wife liked it too .... but, not really, she told that she doesn't want Hedo anymore and even was reluctant to go to Desire .... so we agreed to try Temptation ....
So, maybe it's better for you to go to TTR again and just buy day pass to Desire? Just a thought ......

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It would be kind of funny if your wife finds this post and the subsequent responses for you guys.

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Chails said: ↑

If you really want to surprise her, maybe ask her thoughts on a few different destinations, with one being Temptations. What I was wondering is, Why did you choose Temptations? Are you looking for a fun party, looking to get her out of her shell, or looking to experiment?
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Im looking for her to get out of her shell and have as a couple , she's does very conscience of her looks and weight and she shouldn't be

Irishcouple84, Dec 7, 2018

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BnK said: ↑

Hmm? Can’t really suggest it’s a good idea to surprise your wife with the destination. Not many women would want to have their hubby withhold info that forces them to skip the chance to shop and get ready for the resort visit. You might get way more burned by the surprise than what you expect to be a good thing. Honestly is the best policy in the area of trust and connections. She may interpret the surprise as your wish for you only so be cautious.

So...., If you think it’s being pushy then it is. Suggest you take a different approach on this by being her doorman instead. Just treat new concepts by the idea to open the door to new possibilities and let her look around first. If she wants to enter she will and if she doesn’t then show her another door.

May the luck of the Irish be with you !!
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Irishcouple84, Dec 7, 2018

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MajesticMelons said: ↑

It sounds like you are already doubting this is be a good idea. You state you have been married for 10 years by now you should have a pretty good gut feeling on how you wife will react. If you don't I would dare say this isn't trip to surprise her with. This can be the type of wrong decision that may damage your relationship by the end of the trip if not in the beginning. Also

I assume you don't live in Mexico and can just drive home so it could be costly. If this goes south at best you pay for a early flight home at worst you end up paying a lot for other accommodations. I will assure you the remainder of your vacation will not be enjoyable. That being said I do recommend you pursue a trip to temptations. As others have said first do you research find out what would appeal to her then involve her in the idea. If you real clever you can get her to make the suggestion you go. That was my route and it tuned out we had the time of our life. If its going to happen it has to happen with out you applying pressure. There is pretty much nothing like the Temptations experience. If she has said she wants a lively vacation this is it, actually it makes lively look like a senior center. Some of the things you read can certainly be intimidation if your reserve, but it is true you only have to participate in what you comfort level is. No one will force or pressure her into anything. Now what you witness well I guess that cant be helped too much.
My wife was sort of similar and wanted to pretty much just go for the party. We were tired of the stuffy resorts and needed something more fun. We did all the research and she decided we should go although with plenty of caveats. She was nervous and told me I better not try to pressure her into anything. I heard that phrase more time than the paseos it cost to get on the boob cruise. Well as it turned out 20 minutes after getting in the sexy pool she was so comfortable she took her top off, I had to inspect a few time that she was in fact my wife. Her top never went back on and the rest is history. Do this the right way and it could be the time of you life. Do it wrong and well you can come back a single guy but I don't think its as much fun. Choose wisely
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Thanks il take your advice

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The first time we went I talked my wife into trying it once. The first night she hated it and said she wouldn't come back. Bey the end of the week she thought it was the greatest place on earth. Cant Imagine how it would have went if I hadn't told her what type of resort it was before going. With the lack of trust she would instantly have just showing up and saying surprise I don't think she would have come around. Most likely wouldn't have even wanted to talk to me after the first night.
We have been at the resort when the husband has brought his wife and then when they got there he pretended "I didn't know it was this kind of resort". She new he was lying and they had a terrible trip. Every time we talked to them she told my wife how she was tricked into coming.
Tell her everything you know about it. Its not the kind of week you want to start out with trust issues.
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Irishcouple84, Dec 7, 2018

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jnine said: ↑

Gotta tell her. You're not just traipsing off to Scotland for a day or two, you're taking her to another continent! She's going to need to do some planning, and judging by the Irish weather, likely some bikini shopping! If she's not prepared mentally and with the physical stuff she needs to bring along it will likely end badly for both of you. And Nikki is right, when it all goes bad at TTR for whatever reason, surprise, alcohol, a wandering spouse or otherwise, it can be epic.

The advice to bring her onto this forum and have her interact with people on here is excellent. Many people have come to this site hesitant, then visited the resort and made lifelong memories and friends.
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It’s friday and my job sux so I am hammered way too early and, for once, did not read all of the replys. You obviously want to spice things up and you are not absolutely sure where she is at. That said, my Friday night advice is to just “put it out there”. We found TTR because of my wife doing a search and I would have said the same thing you did before that. Let her surf the forum thread before you come and JFDI.

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