My wife not as open minded should I book us temptations?

Maybe you should consider to go to nearby resort and just buy day pass to Temptation or Desire

 

From self experience with a ex. I would not do it. I had a lady who was reserved explained it to her let her see the site. When she got the she was still uncomfortable and with so many people being extra friendly she became more uncomfortable. So I would talk to her if I was you explain to her why you think she would enjoy herself along with letting her look at TTR promo videos before you come. Along with coming up with guidelines so you both have expectations for each other. Then when you get there take baby steps even though it maybe frustrating. But by day 1.5 she will have meet some people and started to let lose

 

Then when you get there take baby steps even though it maybe frustrating. But by day 1.5 she will have meet some people and started to let lose - It's very individual ... When I told my wife that there is clothed part and nude only part (it wasn't TTR) , sge agreed , but said that she never getting nude. .... 1 hour after me arrived, she agreed to check out nude side..... 5 min after, she was nude chatting with other nude people in the hot tub

 

If you want to roll the dice, give it a try, just don’t expect everything to happen that you have read about. You could plan on the quiet pool, and beach, and see where that leads. Bash isn’t really overly sexual.

There really is a place for everyone there. It’s usually easier to ask for forgiveness, than permission....

 

Oh what a difficult subject... might be 10 years but how well do you know your wife ?. Have you already been to a topless beach or pool, if so, what was her reaction ?. If not ,we agree with the general sentiment... she must be involved.. half the fun for the ladies is that exciting shopping before the trip. My better half said NO, NO, NO for over a year. I was absolutely confident she'd have a blast (she had no prior body issues whether topless or nude, so that was the easy part). She was very nervous on arrival expecting to see a shag fest...WRONG. But within 24 hours , including a day on the Boobs Cruise, she absolutely loved the party and all the people, ... 7 trips later........ You must get her involved if she will have serious reservations.....

 

I would highly recommend against springing TTR on your wife at the last minute.

Between TTR/DRM/DP, we will be on trip #11 this April.

When we first went back in 2011, we both did research, kind of knew what to expect, and had a blast.

One of my wife’s biggest complaints for the first trip however is she didn’t prepare enough with the outfits before hand. Her dresses were more “vacation at sandals” sexy, than TTR sexy if that makes sense. And trust me when I say this, your wife feeling sexy is hands down going to be the best part of your trip.

She might also want to spend some extra time at the gym or salon beforehand if she knows where she is going.

If you break it to her at the airport, even if she likes the idea of where you choose, she might be pissed that she didn’t have time to plan accordingly.

Seems like too much of a gamble.

 

Or just do the Boobs Cruise!

 

The best advice my wife and I received about going to Temptation was to communicate about it before hand.

We made sure we were both on the same page with where we were going, what we thought might happen, and what we wanted to happen. We kept this communication up our entire trip. We both ‘let our hair down’ a bit more than we thought we would. But we stayed within each other’s comfort zones. Such a great vacation we’re already planning to return.

Additionally once we got the decision to go out of the way we had so much fun planning and anticipating the trip. Probably almost as much fun as we had being there.

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We did see an epic fallout between couples. Husband and surprised his wife with the Boobs Cruise, or had misrepresented it as a way to get over to the island... something like that. She stormed off the boat as soon as it was tied up, with him running after her apologizing and saying he didn’t know. It was painful to see.

 

Pavel,

Because of the kind of person I am, I would love to know how things are going. How the talks with the wife are going.
Give us an update, because we want you guys to succeed in whatever decision you choose.

 

OP is an Irishcouple, not Pavel
I just was giving advises . We've been to Desire, Hedo and coming for 1st time to Temptation