Actually dude, you should write the book on how to be in general at T, not only for a single guy, but for married, or whatever. One of the nicer guys I have met, genuinely. Hope all is well buddy
Drunk single guys can be a pain in the arse. Was there last June when a BIG Fight started when they were getting touchy with random women. They even fought with the security staff and police came. Don’t go if you’re going to go there to watch the scenery ...aka tits... will make most women ... and their men pissy. Most women there are topless because it’s a safe space to be free and sexy. Not to get attention. Another single guy move is to wait until the wife/girlfriend is left alone briefly,... and them approach them. Example ...one creeper came up to K when I went to get a drink and asked about her underwear under her dress....and a couple mort things...he was just waiting for an opportunity. She handled it well but didn’t feel safe alone after that.
That's because you and BearHug (Nathan) are the best guys we know. Truly glad we made lifelong friends with both of you! We just need to make the trip to Alberta in the summer to catch up.
Thanks for the nice words John and Steph. You guys are great friends as well and very glad I got to meet you as well. Welcome in Alberta anytime! Hope you last trip was awesome again.
We've never had an issue with single guys... plenty have respectfully hit on my wife... bt it was all good and polite....I don't mind ...she'd fucking hot what else would I expect... lol. When in January are you going ?
It happens everywhere, even outside of TTR in mainstream clubs/pubs etc. Because TTR tends to attract more progressive open minded types, there can be a sense that it may be a more permissive free for all when it comes to interaction. As rule of thumb and erring on side of caution, you'll find people a lot more accommodating and welcoming if you approach partnered ladies and don't progress any further unless you've at least acknowledged invest a little in the social niceties with their partner. You never know where couple boundaries are and it's a lot easier to move boundaries further than to take back when you've crossed them.
I went there last April as a single guy. Read a lot on the forum to make sure I know the rules and how to behave. I was alone though but I met a lot of people over there and was mainly with 3 other singles guys I have met there( now good friends). I never felt I was out of place. Everybody was talking to me and I did the same. There was a group of 10 guys or so for a bachelor party and they were fine. It's just how to behave. If you go there, get drunk and flirt with all women... You will get into trouble. At first I went there to find women. Then I read the forums and talked in private with some people and I completely changed my thinking. I went there to have fun and friends and it's what I did ( Mark, Ayman, Eric, Jaimie, Philipe, Sophie, Melissa, Rick, Corey, Mindy, Christina, Genevieve, etc. If you see this, message me!) The people there are AWESOME. So many cool people, it's incredible. The rest came by itself but didn't chase it. PM me if you are single guy and want some tips ( I talked a lot with swinger couples and learned a lot) Hope it can helps some single guys. BTW, me and the guys I have met there are coming back in April. Got the TTR addiction I guess... Nb: sorry for my English.
