Good to hear they are still giving out free BJ's. I was worried they stopped that with the security changes.
You could leave hubby home and go by yourself! It will be the best vacation you ever had. However, might put a strain on the marriage when you return home.
I think everyone has mostly cleared this up for you...at least I hope they have! I don’t have a ton to add to this that hasn’t already been said, but I understand hesitation to going to TTR for the first time - everyone that has been can understand hesitation - mainly of just the unknowns of a resort like this one that offers so much that most resorts don’t offer - the atmosphere, funny/sexy games, crazy/sexy theme nights and parties, toplessness, etc. We are leaving in 2 weeks (2 weeks from tomorrow!!!) for our 4th trip to TTR and I know we will continue to go back. But I do remember the first time we went - arriving and having a moment of “what have we gotten ourselves into!” It didn’t last very long and we have obviously gone back multiple times, but as the male half of our relationship, I can honestly say at first I was nervous to let my wife out of my sight, felt weird about her being topless when she finally did (although that quickly goes away because...I mean...look around ) and things of that nature. And I think that is perfectly fine since that isn’t normal most places outside of TTR. And it certainly wasn’t normal for us! But you figure out pretty quickly how great so many of the people are that go there and once you let yourself have a good time, you have the time of your life and look at dates for your next trip on the flight home from this trip. And you start planning for theme nights 6 months before your next trip (if you have that long between trips ) and you join the threads and groups that are going the same time as you and start making friendships before you even step foot on the resort. I would love to find out what it is specifically that has him hesitating, as so many others have mentioned, but it is so hard to imagine someone going to TTR and not having the time of their lives like us and so many others have. Hope to see you guys there on a future trip!
Check his pulse. If there is none, you probably shouldn't bring him. If there is a pulse, have him read this first time trip report. I think it is the most accurate I have seen. Trip Report – What Every Newbie Needs to Know (And Every Veteran Wants to Hear)
We did DRM first. Now that was a big step. When we first booked TTR we were worried it wouldn't be as much fun. Now since then we have been to TTR more than DRM
We met 10 years ago Temptations! Totally understand being on the fence. I was sure it was gonna be too much for my conservative self. NOPE! Just enough to pull me right out of my shell, have the most amazing sex (married him to keep that) and meet awesome people every time we go. Can warm up at the quiet pool, then head to the sexy pool with a buzz if you're a little iffy at first. If it's too much, go to the beach or back to the quiet pool. I honestly have never met so many amazing people in one place. Tell him to book now!
I just realized this...he’s playing you for more sex and bj’s! Do what my wife did...book the trip and tell him he is going! Once she did I had to figure out how I wasn’t going to get in trouble! She cannot because I have no rules for her. It was the best decision she ever made, for us. And worked out fine. Yes became part of the addiction.
