So my husband and I have been looking to come to TTR for a few months, we've checked out this forum, done quite a bit of "research" and I am 100% sure this is where I want to vacation. (Uhm, party, hot chicks and my tits exposed 100% of the time!!) However, he's a bit on the fence. If you have any experiences/stories/advice for me that may help me sway his decision, please post! (I have tried with holding sex,and asked mid-bj to no avail). Help a girl out!!!
What exactly is he on the fence about....we are going for our second trip feb 16-27 and we can’t wait!!!
I guess you could go somewhere else, not party, no hot chicks and not see your tits exposed 100% of the time. Based on the evidence provided this is a no-brainer.
Yea I guess it be better to understand why he wouldn't want to go, so we can provide proper feedback. My first thing I always tell people: It's not a meat market, but if you get mad/jealous when someone looks or talks to your significant other, then it's not the place for you. I have friends (men and women) that sometimes have problems with their other halves at home at the beach/bar...I don't invite them on trips with us.
It would help to understand what he is on the fence about. A man might be reserved for a few reasons; Is it possible he’s very self conscious or concerned he won’t have as much fun as you, because any attention might be directed at you and he could feel left out? Is it possible he feels like he doesn’t identify with the type of atmosphere of partying? I don’t know his personality but these reasons can be hard for people to explain if that is their feelings.
I am not sure how many times we have been to Temptation, somewhere around 10. We have had a great time every trip. But also just about every trip we have seen at least one couple that would have been better off some where else. We have met a few couples with jealousy issues., we have met a few guys, single and married that think because they are at Temptation they can do or touch what ever they want. Seen people that cant handle the drinking and get so drunk they get escorted back to their room. Met more than one couple that the husband brought his wife and then pretended "I didn't know it was this kind of place." That about sums it up. If none of this describes you or your husband you will have a great time. Please don't take this as a negative post. I am talking about the one percent. The other ninety nine percent absolutely belong at Temptation.
This "on the fence issue" is usually the other way around it's the guy that wants to go and the gal is on the fence, Temptation is a great place for all types of personalities, body types and ages. The CCC forums are the best place to do your research about Temptation. Sounds like a talk between you two about what he is on the fence about is very much needed. There was another discussion similar to this awhile back, the the couple was ok with going on the Boobs Cruise but was hesitant on going to Temptation. T
This forum has 17,500 different posts, the are a few Facebook pages (Temptation Cancun Community, TTR October 2018 Party People are just a couple). I cant think of a resort with more repeat vacationers than this. I've been going here for 12 years....and I'd recommend it to anybody. Party people love it.....book reading people love it.....Free the Tatas people love it.....I'm sure you can convince him!
The first time we went we booked before learning that it was "that kind of resort" but we decided we would just hang out on the beach if we were uncomfortable. My wife NEVER went topless because she was afraid of being judged. Flash forward to now, we are premier members and go at least twice a year. My wife doesn't even look at bikini tops, just bottoms, because she doesn't wear a top. What we have learned is that the resort is EXACTLY what you want it to be, no matter what that is. If you want to let the girls out, let them out and know there's every body type possible doing the same, and nobody feels ashamed of it or of themselves. Don't want to let them out? Then don't. You won't be alone and you won't be pressured to or shamed for not. Want a party? It's the best party you can find. Want a quiet, relaxing time? They have that too at the quiet pool or the beach. Are you swingers? You'll find others that want to play. Not swingers? All you do is say NO and it will never come up again even partying with the people that asked. Great food, great vibe, very accepting of anyone and everyone, no matter what your limits are. And you'll make friends for life. When we go, I find it incredibly sexy that my wife can go topless and hang out talking to men or women an arms length away, and they are nothing but respectful to her AND to me.
