One that really ticked me off was we were talking with a young couple way over on the empty side of Bash that looks into the rooms in the older section and she was wearing a t shirt that said "I have no tits." We struck up a conversation about implants and she said she didn't want scars on her boobs. I challenged her to find a scar on mine. My back was to the crowd which was 50 feet away and there was no one on the boob side, just the railing. There was nothing sexual about it. I was told not to do that again or else.
We went to TTR two or three times a year for many years (starting when it was Blue Bay Getaway). Recently we do two trips a year, one to TTR to party our brains (and our livers) out, and one to Breathless for a more relaxed and up-scale time. We do find that many of the people at Breathless are open to meeting new friends. Go to dinner together, meet at the pool, meet for a drink later... We're not a lifestyle couple and we haven't met any there, so it all works for us.