Hubs isn't a dress up in theme type of guy but he said this time he would like to ..so I bought him tshirts for the party that match the theme that way he is in theme but in a way that makes him comfortable lingerie night he may or may not be wearing his pj's just depends on what he is comfortable with
lingerie night is what confuses me, lol. Guys don't have much in terms of different lingerie, it's either underwear or some thin PJ pants. I know my wife will be participating. We shall see what I figure out. I know we'll both be doing the school girl/nerd and white theme nights, and she may do a few other ones ! Either way, I'm excited!
some guys grab the bathrobe from the room for lingerie night I have some pj shorts or pants for hubs I have seen guys in boxers
Seen guys wear a sock. Although I wonder if security would stop this now a days? Nice silk boxers always work too.
For theme night wear, there's a really simple solution: Layers! I always plan my outfit so that there's the beginning "demure" version with something that can be removed for the "Oh my!" version, which can then be stripped down to pasties and a thong if I get too hot from dancing. (For example, for lingerie night, I had pasties and thong under a sexy bra and cheekies, with a lace top over that. Glow night I had a neon dress over a neon thong....) That way, you can come down not feeling too out of your comfort zone, read the crowd, and decide from there how scandalous you want to go.
Theme nights are fun and make life a little easier , but I would wear something to dinner, go back to the room and changefor the theme, my husband would generally be fine going to dinner in his theme attire. As for the LS, we were never even approached by anyone!
The great thing about TTR is you don't have to do anything. Pick the theme nights that interest you and dress for those, and then just dress sexy / normal for the others. It's always fun to participate in the themes nights though. We love it!
Chippendale style cuffs and bow tie with boxers or briefs is nice for guys at lingerie night... this is what the wife says! Guess what I'll be wearing? :|