From the wife's perspective, I think it's a ton more fun and a lot more comfortable to dress for theme nights as a team. I think when one person is dressed normally and the other feels way out of their comfort zone, it's just harder to get the party going than if both of you are in the same boat from the get-go. Often, Todd will go for funny or silly or just outrageous instead of blatantly sexy, though.
It seems to me that a faily small percentage of guys do anything for theme night......with the exception of lingerie nights. It seems as though "women" are the highlight of every evening
we were with a fairly large group over Memorial Day and almost all of our guys dressed to theme. Some obviously a bit more than others. I will post an album later so you can see. Tony dressed to theme every night, a lot of tight boxer briefs. I think our best turnout night was Red White and Blue.