And your point is what exactly? People are on vacation, vacations are meant to be relaxing--shouldn't have to dress like your going to church to get a meal. Not for the sake of the resorts nonsensical rules or peoples delicate sensibilities about what OTHERS should be wearing.
any of those would be fine... BUT.... honestly... when you get there you're probably gonna wish you were in something skimpier at the nightclub...they are mostly all long 'gowns' and I wouldn't want that much coverage on and there likely won't be many women that 'covered'. The see thru element is very good....but i'd recommend nixing the gown idea (unless that's the look that turns your hubby on in which case go for it.) . while the french maid one qualifies i'd probably only go the 'costumy' route it fits in with whatever the theme is... so it's a potential winner for sheer night! Having said all that ...wear what makes you feel sexy and pushing of the envelope and what turns your hubby on and don't give a fuck what anyone else says...even me. NOW, as for dinner those would be fine with maybe panties and a sexy bra....remember less is more but at dinner its more sexy than slutty and after dinner it's usually more slutty and sexy.
@Tim and Sarah ...based on what @funcpl27 has suggested... Bring a good pair of scissors and two or three outfits can be made from the longer gowns. All thatis needed is a little ingenuity, duct tape, bailing wire, silly putty, whipped cream, body paint., ...well you get the idea
For neon night, you can get things from all over--it doesn't have to be from Yandy. Party stores are actually very good spots for neon costume wear and accessories.
My point is that if you're a guest you follow the house rules. If you don't like the rules you can go anywere else. They are not "my" rules, but TTR rules, and if I go there I agree to follow them. Besides you have other restaurants in the resort with no dress code. As far as vacation/relaxing as an argument, I could be on Vegas or in Miami and I would never wear flip flops to go to a nightclub i.e. So I respect and get your point, nevertheless I don't agree at all
Reading on FB it sounds like ALL restaurants have those rules now except the buffet. And while it is "house rules" the house wouldn't exist without all of us, so how it works for the hands that feed you should be taken into consideration. I don't think the Vegas analogy works here, we're not talking about going to the club; its dinner. You can go to a restaurant in Vegas before the club in a pair of shorts. I'm not saying people should be walking in with their asses hanging out, but if you're wearing a pair of shorts, sneakers and a T shirt--you shouldn't be shown the door instead of a table. I saw a guy of FB wearing pants where literally only his ankles were showing and he was turned away. That is extreme and overall silly, because if I wear a pair of wrinkled jeans they'll let me in because my ankles are covered. But at the end of the day, its whatever--we don't go for the food anyway lol.
You've definitely come to the place where "Less is More", and that's more than just a cliche at TTR. When surfing through any of the web sites you mentioned, find the smallest, most revealing outfit they offer, and you'll likely find somebody at TTR with one smaller or more revealing. Sometimes it may be no more than pearls on a string, but after a short time at the pool you won't think anything of it, so shop accordingly, and BY ALL MEANS, bring an outfit that would make your husband blush even knowing you bought it! You'll love it! As for the selection you started with, our favorite is this one... Dramatic Mesh and Eyelash Lace Gown Set. It's simple, sexy, has a bit of class, and sheer. Bring this, and something even more daring! As for Glow Night, buy several colors of the glow paint, the neon stickers (hearts, stars, flowers, etc.) and a matching thong. We used a Q-Tip and painted Stephanie up like fireworks that shot up her leg, wrapped around her waist and chest, and exploded near her shoulder. It was fun, and a great outfit! You could do the same with flowers. BTW, a couple of the larger stars served as pasties so she was O.K. at Bash with no problems.