Thanks for the response! The Mrs does not mind going topless. She is very comfortable with it on her own terms. That's essentially why we were asking. She's not against it by any means, but only once she's comfortable and ready. She just wouldn't be comfortable if she's not quite ready to drop the top yet and starts catching flack for it. That would actually likely have the reverse effect and seal the deal on the top staying on. When are you guys going? I don't think we've posted our dates for this year yet. We haven't been to TTR since 2015. Our next trip is July 13 thru 20.
I think the above opinions stating that, if you're not comfortable with getting your boobs out right from the git-go, then the Boobs Cruise isn't for you. The tits-out to start is the Beginning of the day, it goes onwards & upwards from there, so if toplessness is already an issue of any kind... best not wreck your day. You can't get off the boat and swim back.
You won't catch any serious flack. Just a little good natured ribbing at first to try and coax you out of your top as more of a challenge than anything else. But honestly, after most of the other women are topless, which they will be in less than two minutes, the topless part becomes no big deal. Then it's just an incredibly fun party boat! And you really should experience it!
I disagree with everyone on here saying things like "you'll get flack but not a lot." If she isn't comfortable with taking her top off, I don't think the Boobs Cruise is for you. It is high pressure, and called out over microphone. We had fun on the BC cruise. She was nervous getting on but agreed to go. But ended up having lots of fun. But I don't think the cruise is right for everyone.
I agree with @Joe&Heidi . Those who say there is no pressure or little pressure haven't been on many Boobs Cruises. We have been on some where there is little pressure and at least 1 where there was a lot, to the point of being awkward. Rule of thumb is as you get on the boat, take off your shoes and your top. If that's not your cup of tea, you might want to try the pirate ship just down the street.
If anybody gives your wife shit tell them to go fuck themselves. Especially the MC of the day but do not hold it against them as they are only doing their JOB! Simple as that. This is America, bitches. Whoops, well Mexico, but the same thing goes!
Make sure you go topless at the resort that way you are comfortable before the Boobs Cruise. You will have no concerns about losing your top on the boat
Perhaps on some cruises there is more pressure than on others, but on the ones we've been on there has never been any situation close to becoming uncomfortable. Just good natured fun and a little peer pressure. It was almost more of a challenge for the person providing the entertainment than about seeing another pair of boobs. The host always seemed to have a good feel for what was gentle ribbing as opposed to taking it too far and actually making the lady uncomfortable. And there have been a few who never did take their top off and it was no big deal for the rest of the trip. It's never anything mean or hurtful. Our advice would be to try it. If you like the atmosphere at the sexy pool you will love the Boobs Cruise, and if you take your top off immediately that's fine, but if you leave it on you'll still have a great time too.
I have been on many Boobs Cruises! Yes... the MC will give a little crap to remove your top! Like others have said... Don't take it personally. Just say NO! They are not serious about it. They are just having fun! No... they will not kick you to the back of the boat. No... they will not stop the boat if you don't take your top off. They'll give you crap for about a minute!! LOL!! Just go and have a BLAST!!!
An important point: what might feel like "ribbing" to one person may feel like "pressure" to someone else. You have to know yourself/your wife. I've been thinking a lot about this, and IMHO--all women are a bit self-conscious and afraid of being judged. When you go on a Boobs Cruise, the majority of people are excited about escaping the "judgment zone" and letting loose. When someone on the boat keeps her top on, no matter her reasons, to some of the other women, that feels like the real world--the one where we're judged for being "slutty"--is creeping onto the boat. Subconsciously, that's why women leaving their tops on get "ribbed"--because we want everyone to be (both literally and figuratively) in the same boat. But I'd seriously like to hear from the guys--is it seeing the boobs that makes the BC so awesome, or is it seeing the girls being so uninhibited? (My boobs had a rough year and are showing some battle scars, so even though I was the first one with my top off on past cruises, it's not something I'm sure I'll do now. I love the BC, but would never want to be the one bringing down the party atmosphere by keeping my top on. However, taking it off would probably make me feel self-conscious and bring down MY party atmosphere. Dilemma.)
