I had forgotten that this discussion came up in the sexy pool with a couple we met at TTR, and during the conversation, the other wife said.. "I just don't feel comfortable being on a swingers forum". I looked at my wife and said... "Huh??" Neither my wife nor I had ever thought of CCC that way. His wife really had NO idea what the forum was about because neither had ever been here. Even after I explained it, she still wasn't sure. Hahahahaha
I too have been a contrainian and leary about the safety and protection with regards to FaceBook. Is this the beginning of the end of FB's golden era?
I think you both are on to something re the picture galleries being more directed towards men. I just took a quick look and almost all are of ladies (not complaining) and almost all the ones that have a lot of likes are of the ladies. Shows that it is skewed towards guys being on here. So in an attempt to help, I just posted a picture of my balls. Maybe that will bring some ladies over from Facebook? Ps. This is what happens when I am 2 weeks away and drinking watching basketball. Go Nova!
But here is a counter-point fact to the gender disparity on CCC. And that is..... Many, and I mean most of the bigger longtime CCC community monthy groups are administered and fostered by ladies. And 95% of all theme night discussion on this site is generally the domain of women. Which is fantastic! But proves that CCC is not testerone laden only
My wife has told me that generally speaking, most of the women she knows, have little interest in seeing a nekkid man unless he is built like Dawayne "The Rock" Johnson. Lol Addendum: Some women like the female pics as much as the men do.
I'm not concerned about any Facebook security issues. I'm not sure what could even happen, or what I should be concerned about. I'm not going to wrap myself in bubble wrap, and assume the worst in all situations. In my view if I get more enjoyment out of it, than frustration, might as well keep doing it.
I think the ladies are so into the theme nghts and care about how they look unlike most of us men. And of course are competing with all the other ladies. I participate and try my best to accept how wife wants me to dress and look for pool, dinner, and Bash. Sometimes I feel like a peacock on a leash! She makes me bring so much shit to TTR...
Fuck. Im not gay but I like looking at him too!!! And of course wished I looked like him even more. And of course like all the had effort of the ladies and the photographic evidence.
