This was our first time. Kinda showed us what we are okey with as of right now. Deff something we want to pursue further
Awesome, I'm sure it was a good experience. My wife and I talk about so hopefully someday day we can experience something similar.
I feel the same way...open to this but for me I have never done this before..I wonder the same thing...would be nice to know who else is looking for this..so not to make it awkward.
Seems like girl/girl fun at TTR is more common than at Desire, in our experience, and that may be the true spirit of people tempting themselves in Cancun at TTR to try something more than vanilla. It's kind of a safe exploration type and it shouldn't really make a hubby jealous so maybe that's why its a starting point or play type for some lifestyle couples. Then again who doesn't like to squeeze boobs? There's a group that goes to Hedo called the "playful pussycats" organized through wild women vacations for April trips so that could be a good nickname.
We just go to have fun and enjoy ourselves. We don't worry about labels. What we are interested in one night might not be the same the next. So just have fun and enjoy yourself and don't worry about putting a label on it.
In my experience(home and on vacation) this isn't always the easiest situation to work out. The wife likes other girls, I obviously like my wife...and other girls, we would all need to be together, she isn't interested in other dudes, I would feel bad if another dude watched me get it on with his gf/wife (but isn't getting anything the other direction), watching just the 2 girls is basically torture, and having same room was slightly awkward. So basically finding a single "unicorn" lady is ideal. Not always the easiest at TTR (and we don't really spend much time looking for one or trying to go out of our way to find something). Just looking to have a fun party and hope to win the TTR lotto