Actually I believe 20% is low , think that number is a lot higher when you factor in the different levels of swinging. Think you would be surprised by the number of those who do but do not advertise it. Been going since 2007 and keep finding someone I know that is at some level that I didn't know of. Some we knew for a few years before ever knowing. That being said its not prevalent or in your face, even when the Swingee group was there you might have never known if not for the Swingee signs and door signs.
My wife said she wanted to go somewhere tropical & very fun. This resort caught my eye as well. She's not a prude but would be pretty hesitant if it were a swinger only place. I think that like you two we just want to see if we can have fun & be comfortable. Let go a little & who knows what fun we can have.
We are not swingers but have had a blast at Temptations both of the times we were there. We partied with know swingers and many who were not and there was no pressure on anyone just lots of sexy fun. Would we go back we plan to after the reopening later this year we just half to figure out the dates. T
I don't think you have to worry, there are swingers there but you would never really notice who the swingers are, no one will ever put you under pressure to do anything you did not want to do!
I introduced her to a lot of the reviews and she is pretty excited. I'm looking forward to us having a fun & sexy time with likeminded & seemingly fun people.
It is good to see you booked. Also...it is easy to "think these things" before you go, but after one visit you will look back and get a chuckle at your post. Great people, no judgement and as much fun as you can handle. Be sure to book the Boobs Cruise and Enjoy!! We...like so many others are looking for alternatives for this summer, but plan to be back in June of 2018.
We are in the same vote!! We have been to the topless Pools in vegas but we are booked here for Oct 4th through 8th and my wife is a little nervous but you only live once and it is my 40th birthday.