Will we fit in ?

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by TnCouple1422, Jan 27, 2017.

  1. Tyler and Angie

    Tyler and Angie Guru Registered Member

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    Well stated!
     
  2. drexal

    drexal Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Vacation express is what we use and fly out of Nashville! And you will have a blast we've been like 7 times and can't get enough unfortunately we're trying GP February 25 thx and hopefully they will be some Temptation refugees there too.


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  3. longshot18

    longshot18 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Two years ago my wife and I were in the same boat. Our motto is we love to be sexual around, but not with others. Meaning we don't swing, do have an exhibitionist/voyeuristic side and absolutely love being in environments where you don't have to be so politically correct.

    Before we booked, we asked similar questions. Through doing research here and elsewhere, we became comfortable that there would be no pressure to do anything we did not want to.

    Ironically, many of the people who answered our questions are hard core swingers. They were also some of the nicest people we met here or when we went. And you know what they never pressured us for anything other that to get them a drink when we went to the bar-lol.

    There is absolutely a sexual tension filled environment there. And there are absolutely swingers there. But there is never pressure to do anything you don't want.

    The word I would use is respect. You will also find your "crowd" so to speak. While everyone we encountered was nice, you get an idea of which people you will fit in with. We met two couples that we are traveling back there with again in November. Not swingers, just people like us- enjoy letting loose once in a while, have a wild streak with limits, but are just fun to be around.

    Bottom line- you both sound like my wife and I. Not prudes, not judgemental about what anyone else does, but while you like a fun, party, sexually charged atmosphere you also have limits. Go! You will find a comfort zone in about 30 seconds and you will find that the environment is accepting of people from all different walks of life, all different ages and sizes, and the motto that nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit is refreshing as hell.

    One final tip. If you go and have not met people in 3 hours, that's on you. Literally if you go to the bar, order a round of some sort of shot (get like a dozen of them) and come back and hand them to anyone near you, you will have friends for the next week, even longer if you choose. It's a great accepting place.
     
  4. NWCountrycouple

    NWCountrycouple Addict Registered Member

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    best if you book under a referral for prices you will have to sit thru the sales pitch but that is only a few hours of your trip go to the Temptation referral page on facebook
     
  5. ScubaSteve

    ScubaSteve CCC's The Dude Registered Member

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    I love how I got pulled into this and haven't even said anything! :)

    TnCouple1422 I am glad you decided to book! I remember years ago my wife and I were in the same boat and said let's just go for. Best vacation decision of my life! The negative reviews on trip advisor turned out to be complete BS.

    Welcome to the forum, and don't hesitate to ask as many questions as you want. With the reno chatter has been slow, but we are always really and willing...to help ;)
     
  6. GarLisa

    GarLisa Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Wow! We've been there 6 times and we're still newbies.
    I personally don't remember anything after 5 PM on the first day of any of my trips! -- Gar

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  7. Stacia_and_John

    Stacia_and_John T&A Tour Guide Registered Member

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    Reputations have weight, mano.... Yours has its own gravity well.
     
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  8. JanScott

    JanScott I can choose my own title Registered Member

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    Been there and done that on more than a few trips...jet lag is a bitch ;) My excuse and I'm sticking with it, lol.
     
  9. FLcupl

    FLcupl Enthusiast Registered Member

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    It's not about fitting in, it's about having fun. If you're having fun and testing your limits, you won't be sorry. My husband knows I'm typically reserved, but thanks to TTR I've reinvented myself to love life and have fun.
    I loved it so much, we are returning for our second visit this October.
    I went from normal mode to Temptation Vacation mode in about a day and a half. I now know, that was too long. My suggestion to you is give yourself half a day to get used to the environment, then jump in with both feet. Three things made me love TTR (1) the couples massage (2) the Boobs Cruise (3) the theme nights. All three are a must, the sooner you do the couples massage the sooner you will let your hair down and start your fun. Try to do the Boobs Cruise early enough to enjoy the fun and kick start the new you.
    I've never removed my top in front of others before, but after about 3 hours... it was off and I stayed topless the entire week. Theme nights were awesome, I loved shopping for the outfits and I loved wearing them each night.

    No orgies around. Just friendly, flirty, lovely people. I did experience my first girl kiss my nast night there. So, this next trip, maybe I'll find a girl to show me some more fun things I've never experienced?


    So, don't worry about fitting in, just have fun. Trust me, you will happily become a new couple by the end of your trip.
     
  10. ajay

    ajay HnH Repeat Offenders Registered Member

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    Guarantee you will be hooked after your first day!
     
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