Hi all coming in July 19-24. New to the LS and ready to have some fun. Limits and rules are being set in place. Any other tips?
We are so excited, but it is so much work to get ready. Every time the wife packs a cute little sundress, I have to sneak it out of "to go pile" and take it on my lunch break to get a few inches professionally hemmed off of the length without her noticing it's gone. Poor wife is going to get to Cancun and think she got 3 inches taller on the flight over. But, she will be popular and I'll come up with some "less gravity nearer the equator science explanation." Cant wait to get there!!!
Rules are in place. For reference we have always been loose with our ideals and made the deal when we first got married that one day we may want other people to add to the bedroom, together or separately. We made the deal to never cheat and always discuss things first and its worked for us 13 nearly 14 years. We just made it official this is what we want to do now. ;-) so not completely newbies
Lol - Welcome to the naughty party. Just advice, rules and trust are important, but make sure to just relax and have fun. If you go at this with a "to do list" mentality, the failures will spoil it. Some days, the swap just isn't in the cards. Relax, enjoy each other as a priority and let the naughty stuff happen naturally. If you do that, you'll never be disappointed and get what you want every time! Also, if you look like your having fun and enjoying the moment, other people will want to touch you. Lol
Thanks that's the exact plan our rules are rather loose and we basically just set a few No go rules with the plan to change as we go as is needed. Looking forward to tons of fun, not hunting for people but unlike last time we were approached now we are open to the idea! Thank you very much for the advice Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk