A TT Guide for Single Men

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  1. masseurjohn

    masseurjohn Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Hi everyone!

    I've been a very grateful and happy member of the lifestyle as a single male for many years. As I'm sure many of you know, most of the community has some kind of way to qualify single men who wish to enter into it.

    This August will be my very first trip to TT, for which I am beyond excited. However, I'll admit my one hesitation is the lack of any qualifiers or processes for managing single men. I've read some posts eluding to the mixed bag of experiences this creates and I thought I might pose the question for the benefit of all.

    While at TT, what is the proper etiquette, intentions, expectations, and ultimately, the best way to have the best time for a single man at TT?

    Cheers, John
     
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    scollins73 Regular Registered Member

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    Don't go with any expectations, don't be a douche and change your dates to July ;)



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  3. masseurjohn

    masseurjohn Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Lol. Great advice.

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    After our recent visit, we're planning a new blog post on exactly that topic. We were amazed at all the guys who just sat on their barstools and did nothing but stare at Leila, even after she approached them! All it takes is hello to get things started...

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  5. Jckansas

    Jckansas Enthusiast Registered Member

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    That is what happened to us too it was bizarre!! It went from guys doing nothing to one's that was sooooo pushy the hubby was about to punch I mean I get being out going but there is a point where it became creepy!

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    Jckansas Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Well me and my husband are not in the lifestyle but we like the occasional third guy and no my husband is not into guys or anything like that! Just to be clear, but our experience this last time was really weird guys wouldn't do anything even after I approached or we would get the really pushy weird guys so basically just be you , don't be pushy, include the husband in conversations, don't get to touchy without consent from husband, dance and you will be safe!! Have fun and good luck TTR is an awesome place.

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  7. Mattg72

    Mattg72 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Not Interested means NOT Interested. And never ever think its ok to be touchy feely..
     
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  9. wild1s

    wild1s Naughty 'n Nice Registered Member

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    Have a nice, friendly conversation and then just ask.
     
  10. funguy

    funguy Enthusiast Registered Member

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    As a single guy who has been in the lifestyle. I have found that as long as you are a gentleman you will be treated as family. Last November was a great time.
    No means no and no touchy unless you are invited. Smile also. That helps. Have fun.

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