Like the others have replied, the fact the other couples are multiple repeaters, they know what they are getting into. They may not think you would be losing the top, so yes, it would be important for you to discuss this with them ahead of time. They may not mind their husbands looking at boobies, but may be uncomfortable with them seeing your boobies. Who knows, maybe all they need is you to lead the way and they will showing off the girls by the end of your trip! Have fun, and get ready for your new addiction, TTR. :mnm:
For sure, there should be some type of conversation prior to the trip. Before booking would have been better. We have the same experience and the conversation was held early. One of the ladies wore a one piece and was ok being around the others. She was told what was going to happen prior. That couple was one and done. Since, we go by ourselves and others from different states/countries we have met over the years.
I am bored today so take this advice like a grain of salt ... I disagree with all the advice above. I think you should just ask one of their husbands to remove your top. That will blow their minds and you won't waste hours/days dancing around the topic I mean if they have been to TTR multiple times they are not as boring / political correct as you may think.
I've never been but plan to be topless as well. Can't wait to have some fun. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I think the main problem is not the toplessness by the other couples, its that my wife is much fitter than the other wives. They may be less likely to join the freeness because of that. The one couple is very much into partying and having a great time but seems to be very shy when titties come into conversation.
I live my life by the forgiveness vs. permission credo. I know it will be fine. If they hang around with us enough eventually they will see the "girl" even when not on vacation!
Somethings don't need to be a conversation. I'm sure you're all excited to be going on vacation and obviously enjoy each other's company enough to want to do that together. . Share how excited you all, enjoy the anticipation together about what a great trip it will be, express how much you're looking forward to have the opportunity to be free and topless and relaxed about it. Funny how sometimes we make a big deal out of things that other wise may not be. Give yourselves the space to make this and enjoy it how you want and allow them to do the same. Takes two people to make things awkward. Breath, relax, enjoy.
