My wife and I will be making our first trip to TTR in three weeks. My concern is this. The couples we are going with have been there several times and this is our first trip. Now you may think I am worried about my wife feeling overwhelmed with the ease of toplessness with the other couples. In actuality, these couples have never gotten topless there and I KNOW my wife will be topless 100% of the time. Should I be concerned with the reaction of these other two couples if they continue to deny their girls' freedom? I hope my wife doesn't feel obligated to conform to the other couples' style. We live in a very small community back home but I don't think they will hold it against her if my wife partakes. Does anyone have any light to shed based on their experience in this situation?
I would say - be open about it beforehand! Get a feel for how they feel about it ... If they are uptight... Their own problem. Going to the wrong place because - your wife won't be the only one topless! Haha It's my first time too and I've NEVER been top less in public but you bet your ass I'll be taking off my top and taking it all in! As should your wife! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
If they have been to TTR before and are going back, they should know what to expect... You shouldn't be worried at all! That being said, talk to your wife and make sure she will be comfortable going topless in front of these friends (it's safe to ask even though you know the answer), and then I would bring up the subject to the other couples just to see how they feel about it... I wouldn't worry too much though, you are in the right place!
We are going in September and another couple has decided to join us. It will be all of our first time. I'm not 100% sure what their intentions are and what level they plan to party. I told her "i plan to pack bikini bottoms and condoms" so she could get an idea of our intentions lol Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G900A using Tapatalk
Go and be yourselves!! As friends, nothing should surprise them and if it does it shouldn't bother them. Have an amazing time as you all together and individually see fit!
They've liked the place enough to return multiple times, so they should know the vibe and respect your wife's choices about top or no top. (Gotta say I'm kind of shocked they'd "deny their girls' freedom--doesn't sound like the kind of people who would become repeaters.) Anyway, while communication is key with couples, sometimes it's easier to get forgiveness than approval when it comes to groups. If you think they'd get down on your wife and stress her out by not "approving" of her toplessness before you go, I'd just wait til you're there and everyone's been drinking, and just have your wife spring it on 'em. When they see the world doesn't end, maybe the others will loosen up.
I'd suggest a "girls night out".............let the ladies talk it out. ......The........ your husband is going to see my titts..........hope you're cool with that.........conversation.........but....be assured my girls are having a coming out party! I hope you'll join me.........but i'm going to rock it either way!..... Oh.....and "BTW....How do you feel about AIWC? I'm bringing a bunch!"
They may be the ones to surprise you, if they have been there before they are obviously not offended by it and possibly they just needs someone llike your wife to bring them girls out! We also are first timers and I'm not packing much, probably more shoes than aanything else!
I would definitely make sure the gals have a talk beforehand about boobies. I doubt if it will be a problem if they have been there several times already, and suspect that the gals may be coming home with less tan lines than they are admitting to.
