Newbies, booked on a whim. Not sure what to expect

Hahahaha sounds like a plan!

 

We'll be going lat March for the first time as well... Biggest piece of advice, set no expectations and just go with he flow. Don't overthink things and you guys will be just fine! Something tells me the sexy vibe many people describe here sets the tone!
We are very much looking forward to it! Have fun and post a review after your trip!!!

 

This is exactly what I'm afraid of - if someone does that to my wife, it would probably ruin the whole vacation for her if the alcohol hasn't kicked in. On the other hand, if she gets to know some people and feels comfortable - who knows.

 

Just relax and have a great time. Plan some outfits for the theme nights - white night and the lingerie casino were my faves. I think our red night was rained out so I am looking forward to that one this time. One memory from our last visit - Steve and Steve from the UK, 50 shooters, and again - lots of tops came off for the first time.

 

Sadly it does happen but I don't think too frequently. If you laugh it off and say no thanks we notice most people understand. Mostly it is pretty much a live and let live type of place, whatever your choice.

 

I wouldn't be too worried about this exact thing happening. Lots of people on here say it does happen, and I bet it does, but there is probably some type of giveaway in someone's attitude that opens a person up to the peer pressure of popping the top off. My wife keeps her top on 95% of the time. She has no problem getting naked, but she is more comfortable with her top on. Not really mentally, but I guess more physically.

I'd say on the first trip she maybe thought about it more, now she doesn't really think about it. And no one pressures her. It's just like "yea that's Elyse her top mostly stays on." "But wasn't that her driving the boat on the Boobs Cruise in nothing but a captains hat?" "Yea we don't really question what goes in in that head, haha". Peer pressure is only a problem if you aren't good at delivering a solid "No"...in a nice way.

 

Im betting she drops the top. Im just saying

 

My wife could have said not and it would have stopped. But when you are there in that moment shit happens.

 

My wife swore she wasn't gonna take her top off... then she got drunk.

 

The only thing I disagree with Patty is the partyers, gotta be 95% partyers, the 5% that didn't do any research, well they just sit there afraid to make eye contact with all the crazy's

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