So just curious if I could get any advice from the members here. I am totally new to this lifestyle, but very interested. We are a mid 30s couple, and I am very sexual. My wife is more of the reserved type. I would be totally fine being nude around beautiful people like everyone I see posting on here. I'm not sure how my wife would react. Does anyone have any guidance, or did anyone start out in the same position I'm in? I'm really interested in booking a trip, hoping that it will help my wife step out of her shell a little, but am kinda worried that it might be too much. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated! Sent from my SM-N915V using Tapatalk
TTR isn't a nude resort, it is topless optional and there is no pressure for anything. This is our 7th trip coming up in April.. I remember our first trip.. swore I'd never be able to walk around topless.. since then we've been to resorts where you go totally nude!
Thanks for the response. Did you have any experience with something like this prior to going your first time, or did you just dive in head first? Sent from my SM-N915V using Tapatalk
Just curious, have you spoken with your wife about Temptation? What type of resort it is? What's her comfort level with a place like TTR to begin with?
Yeah, briefly. She wants to go somewhere that is adults only, but isn't sure about a resort where topless is allowed. She was curious to learn more about it though Sent from my SM-N915V using Tapatalk
If she's offended by naked titties then I'd advise against TTR.. if she isn't offended.. then it's a great place to party and have fun whether she's topless or not.
Nobody knows you and nobody cares. That's TTR, no pressure. You do not have to be anything you don't want to be. There are plenty of things you can do that do not include nudity. Check out temptationresorts.com
for what it's worth, our first trip was a COMPLETE surprise. prior to temptations, we were at a resort in the bahamas where kids were running up and down the halls all night long. we decided our next trip would be to an adults only resort, so after some VERY quick googling, temptations popped up. so we booked the trip, showed up, and we were completely blown away. there was no pressure for either of us to be topless, although i took my top off WAY before she did. and by the end of the week, we'd already booked our next trip for the following year. before that first trip, we didn't even know about this lifestyle. but we're both really glad we went... our eyes and minds have been opened, and now we've got the best friends in the world (best = truest, most honest and caring). our only regret is that we didn't stumble onto the resort earlier. but this is just us... your mileage may vary.
Thanks, that is great feedback! It sounds like you just need to go and try it out, pressure free, and see what happens. It sounds like an exciting adventure to me, and it's good to hear from someone else who was a first timer! Sent from my SM-N915V using Tapatalk
I think the most important thing is communication. Talk about the resort. Show her the website. Show her cancuncare. Explain it is like spring break for adults. Sure it is topless but she doesn't have to go topless if she doesn't want to. Sure there are lifestyle people there but there are just as many non lifestyle people there, if not more. But most importantly this is a vacation for the two of you together and she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to. At the very least it will be a fun new experience, even if you are simply flies on the wall watching the fun. Like most though, once she sees everything first hand her eyes will likely open up and she will enjoy everything Temptation has to offer.
