I'm still confused with all the apparent rules of the varying degrees of "clothedness." I figured they might want guys to have a shirt on if in the disco.
My first time I didn't feel comfortable just showing up in boxers shirtless. Someone promptly removed my shirt and threw it on the roof. I wouldn't go shirtless other nights, by lingerie night doesn't seem to matter. There really aren't "rules" any nights except dongs must be covered.
okay, not to throw a wrench into things, but if not part of a group with their own theme, the only theme info I can find is the main TTR page where it seems: white one night, red, then BDSM (black lol), lingerie night and........ Sorry but these newbies are wondering what to pack! Do we need costumes at all?
