So you sound like you're about to book your next trip and glad to hear you broke out of your comfort zone and took the plunge.
I'm so glad this thread is here. I am going in January for the first time with friends who have been many times. I have been worried about the not having a great body and wondering how much of my clothes I am willing to take off. The body isn't my biggest nemesis it is what it is and will never be what I want it to be but I hate my boobs more than anything. I've seen older women with better REAL boobs than me. Seriously they are so saggy you would think I was 80 and my nipples don't even point forward, I guess they are shy and would rather look at the ground. Boobs are a big thing for me I like nice boobs, I don't care if they are natural or not. So not having the boobs that I like drives me crazy. But after reading this I'm feeling a little better.
My wife says the exact same thing about her boobs, but she quickly got over it by the end of day one. No one cared, no one commented, no one was staring. The only comments she received were all positive and reinforcing.
My ladies don't point to the horizon anymore either, they point down, so what they have a little sag to them comes with her being a mother. I nonetheless can't keep my hands off them I love how they feel, I love kissing them, I love running my tongue over them.... ok you get the picture, if your man feels that yours are the best looking set on the planet then honey be proud of them...we all get older we all wish that are bodies were a little more like they were in high school I know I do I had some six pack abs happening now a days I'd have to move the mini fridge out of the way for you to see them why am I telling you this she thinks I'm the sexiest man alive so ask your man's perspective...if he thinks you have a fantastic rack then that's what matters....cause its when he doesn't want to get you out of your clothes and do things to you that's when you have to worry
No one was out right staring you mean, sure they got a once over if not a twice over LOL....I know from experience she had hers scoped out more than a few times and you're right no one cares the boobs that are on display at TTR are all shapes and sizes there are big ones, small ones, some that point straight ahead, some that point to the ground, some that are real, some that are enhanced, and sometimes if cancer has been a bastard they're no longer there.....we had one lady tanning topless that had lost hers to cancer and everyone thought the same thing good for you honey for having the bravery to doff your top and let cancer know it may have taken your breasts but it didn't take your spirit.....I lost my grandmother to breast cancer and that's why I always tell my girl I love her and if her breasts sag so f%cking what just check them and have them looked at by the Dr. if you find anything out of the ordinary...boobs can be reconstructed if it comes to that, you on the other hand can't And remember these few things ladies 1) you are someone's reason to masturbate 2) there's someone admiring your body going I wish I looked as good as her....don't fool yourselves they are 3) there's someone saying damn I wish I was as brave as her for taking her top off/ wearing something that revealing
I love this thread! Thought I'd share this little gem: a co-worker recently gave me a "backhanded" compliment -- she said I was so brave for posting a pic of myself on Facebook wearing a strapless 2-piece swimsuit that shows my belly. I should have replied that having the extra fabric of a tankini or one-piece suit would not fool anyone into thinking I am slender. I can't imagine what she'd think if she knew I was topless when not posing for that picture!! Live it up! Rita
Funny thing is if you did tell her she'd probably say I'd never do that. Think as we age we get an attitude of WGAF. make no apologies whatsoever and if you feel like tanning topless on your holidays whose to tell you any different.
Its nice to hear others have the same fears I have. Work my butt off running and crossfitting but at my age it just doesn't have the same results!!!! Have pretty bikinis..hope people focus on those not the body in them. LOL
Chances are they'll focus on the attitude of the lady wearing said bikinis if she's out there having a great time and parties with the attitude of who gives a shit I'm here to have a great time my man loves me in this outfit so if you don't who cares.
