Hi, I'm a good looking, fit and respectful guy in my 40s. Is Temptation the place for me, or should I wait to visit until I have a significant other to bring along?
Your success lies on your shoulders. Many single guys repeat this resort and are respected and enjoy themselves. It is an art to inject your self into a group of couples , but many have done it respectfully,, others are buried at the back of the resort. Your character will also determine whether or not you have fun. It is up to you .
My recommendations... post some pictures, tell us about yourself, communicate with people and develop some relationships. That way you don't seem like a voyeur who sits in the shadows and jerks off. This can be a very welcoming place for single guys, or your worst nightmare. As you can imagine, there are some of both, but people are generally very welcoming to any people who enjoy the company of fun people.
Thanks for the answers. I definitely do not intend to be a voyeur. Where can I post pictures, and meet people who will be there when I will? I'm thinking of going at the end of October.
To post pictures, go to the "user cp" tab at top. It's not the easiest site to upload pictures, but with a little effort, you can figure it out. To meet late October people, look in the "Hotties and Hellraisers" thread. Check out the October 2015 thread also.
I've been to Temptation 3 times, and in my experience, it seems the single guys are welcome, but they don't always have a great time. December 2014, we saw a few single guys READING at the Sexy Pool every day. No, there's nothing wrong with reading, but I'm pretty sure you don't fly all the way to an all-inclusive resort to read. One single guy was on our Boobs Cruise + he was the butt of many jokes during the cruise. He took them well + had a chance to be a hands-on (more like face-on) judge of the best Tatas on the boat. June 2015, we saw large groups of single guys: one group of about 6 guys from Baltimore/DC and another group, maybe 8? guys - not sure where they were from, but they were Filipino. All those guys had a great time (dancing, participating in events) but I don't know if they "got lucky" (if that was their intention) We also spoke to a few other single guys who were great to talk to. Everybody is welcome at Temptation as long as they're fun + respectful. Hope this helps.
I just came back from my 2nd trip and there are plenty of single guys and ladies.(mostly couples, but not all are). I went with friends both times and didn't have a problem getting to know people or finding other singles. Atmosphere is very welcoming there, so you shouldn't have a problem connecting with others.
Humm.. Have the right attitude and you will be fine. Do not expect anything more than a good time. If you have game, you will be better.
