It was great meeting you both, glad you were able to enjoy the fun next time you need to book a longer trip
Have been to the resort multiple times and have yet to have a day that I'll go to the quiet pool. I know where it is cause I see it on the way to dinner at the Italian restaurant. The best way to describe things is it's spring break for adults. There's no open acts of sex around the pool, no swingers will abduct you and take you off to their room. They'll be in the pool beside you may even ask if your in the lifestyle and if you are may inquire as to if your interested in making a play date. If you've read Trip Advisor to get the vibe of the place you've done your research in the wrong place. This forum is the place to ask questions because the people on it have been and will tell you honestly about the place. Our first trip we had a few reservations but we had some friends that had gone and told us about TTR and we had a blast. The staff is amazingly friendly want you to have a good time but in the end it's still really up to you as to your participation level. No one will force you into anything you don't want to do but after meeting a few people there you may be encouraged to join in but still it's your choice. The motto "No one knows you so no one gives a shit" just means to go and have your own fun so if you want to dance like no ones watching party like the bar will never run dry or just sit back and enjoy the sun with a good book then who is going to tell you any different. Though the last part about the book you'll probably do that the first day maybe the first two but you'll hear the fun the laughter and you'll close the book and go and explore and more than likely join in. I know cause we both take a book with the intention of reading it at some point but in all honesty we read it on the flight down cart it to the pool daily and maybe read a page or two then it's on the flight home where we read a bit more. We find the sexy vibe has us looking at each other with an increased level of hunger and we spend more time making love there and we have a healthy sex life as it is. Hope that helps
Ugh, was discreetly reading the forum on my phone at work and just did a spit take with my coffee as I read this. Now I need to clean my desk and hope my boss doesn't ask what happened!
I am so glad I found this thread. My boyfriend and I are booked for April and I have been pretty nervous. This has helped re assure me tremendously. Thank you for asking the questions some of us wanted to ask and thank you all for answering them!
Our first time we were nervous , and felt awkward, but it turned out to be a lot of fun,totally different then what was expected and we wanted to do it a lot more and couldn't get enuf of it . We are talking about sex ,,,,,right ?
My wife and I will be at TTR for the first time 10/01-10/08. We are retired, veteran travelers/partyers. From Fantasyfest in Key West to Orient Beach (nude) in St. Maarten to New Orleans to Vegas to TTR our motto is regret what you don't do rather than worry about what you are doing. Remember what happens at TTR stays at TTR til next time. R
