I don't understand this, if you are open and comfortable enough with sexiness that you'd enjoy TTR, Hedo, Desire etc. why the heck would you subject yourself to the lie of living a life that's clearly not you? Not trying to be controversial, genuinely curious. I prefer to live by the Dr. Zuess quote "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."
Never underestimate the human condition know as greed. If someone can make more money living a lie, most times they will.
True, I put up with a shitty boss because I enjoy the job and will be eligible for a full pension in 8 years and 2 months, not that I'm counting lol
I love the quote............and think that'd be great...............but we don't live in a Dr Zeuss 'world'........if you are able to do it......more power to you!
See........We don't consider it "living a lie" at all. We are most comfortable being able to keep our play and our work separate. I think most people get and respect that. Whatever works for you is great.........but that doesn't have to work for everyone........right?
Yea I totally agree. I was at a point with work once where it was like I can keep taking this BS if they keep paying me more and more, and the more I would take, the more they would pay me. It got to the point where I would look in the mirror and feel like a dirty dirty whore. But I was a very well compensated one. So I would put on my lip stick and knee pads, and take it like a champ. After having my kid I just couldn't do it anymore. I mean it got me where I was, and made lots of things possible at a very young age, but enough was enough. I guess instead of saying "living a lie" it is a better expression to say "I didn't sellout, I bought in."
LoL Are you still a dirty dirty whore? Bring down your knee pads and lipstick and throw on some roller skates......you can be Rollergirl for Halloween
True, like I said I wasn't trying to be mean or controversial. It's really a testament to the human soul that we can and do put up with shit as we see the greater good. Hypocritical of me as if I had my way I'd say "take this job and shove it" in a heartbeat and yet here I am 16 years later.
I still am, but I don't get paid for it anymore. So I am just a slut. Roller skates at TTR..no thank you. I already got a concussion just operating my feet.
We took a camera and took pictures with other couples (as long as they were okay). I'd show them to see if they're okay...and if not, just delete it.