Hmmm...that's a really interesting question! For me, naked (in public) isn't about "sexy" it's about "Let's see what I can get away with." I'm not thinking about being alluring, I'm just being kinda playful, silly, or even bratty (I'm thinking of the times we were naked in the sexy pool and seeing how long before security would catch us, for example.) But when I'm choosing a bikini or lingerie, etc. I'm putting in the effort to decorate and camouflage, so I want to make sure the effect is worth the effort.
Ahhh I love pushing boundaries! :icon_mrgreen: I agree, I'd rather be 'sexy' in clothes or lingerie, than "just naked". Every woman is different and we all have our own reasons for the things we do/don't want to do. Nothing is right or wrong, its all individual. And while we are confident in one aspect, we may not be in another. I'd say bring the sexy thong along on the trip & let the Mrs. decide once she gets there, if she wants to wear it or not. The sexy vibe of TTR paired with lots of booze was what solidified my decision! LOL well & my encouraging hubby! xoxo Personally, I was unsure of going topless the first trip to TTR, but my top was off within hours & hasn't been back on since! :flash: This year, my big "goal" was getting my ass into a thong like the others I saw last year & having enough liquid courage to feel confident in it in public! So I only brought like 3, 'just in case', well of course by mid-week I wish I had more! I was hanging with friends who had collections of 30-100 of these damn things! lol (Of course they had tiny firm little buns and not my 41yr old 'booty') BUT (no pun intended!) I had forgotten that its TTR, no one knows you & no one gives a shit!! So I strutted around with the best of them & just enjoyed the moment! Own it! (you can always pack a wrap to cover up when u want ) So when the thong comes in the mail, I hope it makes it to the "maybe" pile! We're never going to be as young as we are right now, embrace it!:bootyshake: Just my 2 cents.. Chris
thank you above for all the ladies advice ,,,, there will certainly be no pressure for Mindy to wear the a fore mentioned garment ,,,, I can certainly see now that there is a difference between being just naked or being attired in something which is nothing more than a piece of string and a minuscule piece of mesh . Mind you all this is in the hands of our Great British Postal Service ,,,,,, the aforementioned garment may still be stuck in some van trundling around the wrong end of Scotland whilst we are boarding one of British Airways finest :icon_mrgreen:
well ive just turned into an Ebay addict ,,,,,, the 2 bargains i bagged on sunday night have both winged there way into my post box ,,,,,,, so the bikini that i bought for Mindy ,,,,, on first inspection im very pleased with it ,,,, didnt pay a lot for it ,,,, mind you there isnt much material in it and it couldnt of taken much more than 4 mins to sew up ,,,, so we will see if i can persuade mindy to try it on tonight and will then see if the comments are favorable or not
well the yellow micro mesh bikini it seems was not a boundary to far and had a day out on the Boobs Cruise as well as a couple of afternoons in the sexy pool , i ought to add at this point that the top is still in as new condition the 'zipper' bikini bottom allas didnt make it out of the room ,,,,, apparently it bites when doing the zipper up lol
I have black and a turquoise "zipper" tops and bottoms. There is no "bite" if you don't try to zipp them up! DUH! LOL.
Going to send you a crown royal bag for your next trip...just remember don't tie it too tight to keep it on...not good when you lose feeling there Hey, if we are there when you are on the next trip we can go matching crown bags at the pool
