Morality clauses are very common in many professions anymore. I get the point of them. The difficulty for me is defining morality. I don't believe most courts would consider being topless while partying heavily in an adults only resort as being immoral.
We've got a couple incidents to share, but first want to ask, why all the concern? TTR is adult (yes, like many 'vanilla' couples resorts in Cancun, Jamaica, etc topless is fine) and it's not really a LS resort like Hedo or Desire (despite TTR's deliciously naughty undercurrent). To us, it's more about no kids, and adult partying, so who cares if work folks find out, or show up. Agree with Wild1s comments . So here are our two stories... (a) We met and partied with a girl at TTR (she is a monthly TTR visitor/member) who we later found out lives 4 houses from our older daughter's house and has been to their place a couple times. Mum's still the word. Yikes... what happens at TTR, stays... (b) At a huge NY Eve LS dance, in the middle of midnight countdown on the dancefloor, my wife spots her boss and his wife. Panic attack ensued, calmed her down, they came over, said 'Hi', and said they spotted her 2 hours earlier! lol ff dancing/antics and all. Found out they're actually a 'host couple'!! lol We were newbs at that club. We exchanged pleasantries and left (alone) about 20mins later. They never discussed at work, and no one was outted, but at times gave each other the knowing glance, and fortunately never asked us to go out. No relation to the incident, he was exited a year later in a mgmt re-org. Fond memories of my doll's reaction, as she abruptly pushed me backwards from the middle of the dancefloor scrum right during the "10-9-8-" NYE countdown ! lol They were there for the same reason... a fun and sexy time. The cool thing about LS folks and LS-friendly folks, are discretion, candour, fun and mutual respect... life is great. (PS: job wise, I'm an HR guy and Mrs carries a gun on her job... You might gather from our pics that we really enjoy living life, spending the kids' inheritance and taking off our work hats)
Then what would it say for a regular type of job? I mean I am not a public official or professional athlete. And if I was a teacher or something I know I can't be blasting crazy stuff on social media. Maybe I signed one at some point during my professional career, and just didn't even realize it. I probably just signed it, but interpreted it as the "don't be an idiot" document...no shit. I did get in trouble one time taking customers out after a conference my previous company hosted, and I was one of the presenters at. I found out it wasn't OK to take a group of out of town people all over getting blasted, and going crazy. The customers telling my SVP "We're were with Steve till 6am, it was awesome!" might have breached a morality clause. Hey I just thought I was showing some people a good time.
No concerns really other than not sure I would want family, coworkers, etc seeing me in those outfits or topless...... One hand I would freak on the other I really don't care what people think of me soooooo it just depends on what out weighs the other I suppose. (The hand that doesn't care more than likely would win)
I may have you beat with this one Steve... Same scenario, with a different outcome. We had a client in from out of state the following day it was... Ummm, yeah I had to take Jim home last night. His wife wasn't too surprised or happy but then I had to get up early this morning to pick him up and take him to get his truck. Oh yeah where did you go?, they asked... The next night was worse. We pulled into a gas station to hit the ATM for titty bar cash and had a nurf gun fight in the parking lot. Our guest was shooting the front window where the casher stands at the place. Surprised the cops didn't get called on us or if they did we never got stopped.
Hands down, I don't think it matters all that much. Not enough to worry about. I'd doubt that if it was your boss, someone from HR or the owner of your company that you would run into at TTR anything would ever happen. Unless they are complete morons they would know if they outted you they are outting themselves.
Random nerf gun fight. Awesome! Glad no cops were called in I did technically get written up after another customer event. Called into the office the Monday after "Steve official complaint this time. You were spanking one of the customers, going to have to write you up for this". Hmmm, didn't remember, but didn't argue. Sounded about right. Never got to the bottom of it because I am pretty sure who I was spanking was liking it. Must have been some other witness not getting spanked that had a problem with it. (BTW at the time I was the Senior Consultant for a computer software company that made banking systems)
They would probably be just as shocked as you!!! A couple of years ago, a couple of friends of mine were at the resort and ran into friends of her parents (from her home town)....But you know what????? They were there to have fun too, and it was all fine. We all go there for similar reasons, and who gives a shit if they see your boobies!!!!! That just means that there are more cool people in the world!!! XOXOXOX Dawn
Lets face it...if you are at Temptation, you know what its all about, and so would that other person, who vaccations these days without doing some homework first....nobody really...So i guess you are like minded with said person so party on! Lol
