we are at temptations and are very new to the lifestyle how do recognize others that are and what is the best approach so no to get slapped or slugged..Sorry for the stupid question but really need help on this one. Sherry24
Have a conversation and if it feels right, just ask. If they're not into it, they will probably just politely say no. Never had anyone get upset with the question at TTR.
Swingers will have white wristbands with red lips on it, if they advertise it, if not flirt alot you will get hit on.
As you get to know them...............you'll begin to feel them up.........errrr ........ .... out. Seriously ........................if they don't receive the message you are sending........ Be blount or move along. Relax and enjoy!
Swingers have horns and breathe fire. Except for the single women. They have only one horn. And breathe Fireball.
We found the best way to find out of a couple was in the lifestyle or not was just to simply ask. It seemed like regardless if a couple was or was not in the ls they were not offended by us just asking
We aren't into the "lifestyle" and have been approached numerous times. We just say something like sorry not for us now lets go have shots!!!! No one gets upset (I take it as a compliment actually)