Fancy Pants, I think your assessment is spot on. The opinionated, judgmental prudes are the ones that should be shamed from Temptation.
I'm a thicker girl! At TTR I feel sexy!! There are so many people embracing themselves for who they are no matter the age or shape! I have 2 younger kids so I am way more conservative at home! I let loose on our 4 th trip way more than usual! I went topless 95% of the time and wore only a bikini bottom(usually I wear the monokini)! I had the best time ever this trip!! I met amazing people, had so much fun (mmmmm, that I will never forget!). I made awesome friends (which I Do every trip). I would wake up some Morning surprised at myself, but never ashamed! The only time I think I could possibly "slut shame" is if a woman was aggressive with a man whose wife is obviously not accepting the advances towards her husband! I'm not there to wreck a marriage, I'm there to have fun that I can't have locally because o would totally get the slut shaming at home
It was so nice meeting you both last week. I wish we had been there longer than just one night! Size, shape, color, and age does not matter one bit. I'd much rather hang out with a fun, care-free, smiling and happy 'thick' girl (your words, not mine), especially one that was embracing her inner slut a bit, than a girl with a perfect body who sits there with her nose up and judges everyone. Confidence is sexy. And you Angela, are one sexy Momma!
its really not a very nice word, its quite offensive in the uk (I think) and personally its not one I would ever use either to describe offensive behaviour or sexy flirtations.