Your comment is spot on! But I bet secretly, their friend really wants to go to TTR. I mean after all, who wouldn't?
The thing is that I´m pretty sure her husband won´t be ok with her going to TTR and I don´t want him trash talking about my wife for going there. So I´d rather not risk it. Believe me, my wife is even more unexcited (sorry for my english, not sure if unexcited is even a word) about this trip now, but they are life long friends and she won´t leave her friend behind now. They still can party a little at Coco Bongo´s and Mandala´s
Makes sense. Better luck next time. Very nice of you to do that for your wife. If mine was at TTR and I wasn't I would probably just be crying in a closet somewhere. And unexcited is a word, and I believe you used it in the correct context (I am not English teacher though). I would have never known English wasn't your first language from all of your post. Awesome job learning a completely flawed language!
We all have to modify our lives not to freak out the people we know. On the bright side you have a wife that likes the idea of TTR! That is always good! If you ever want to send her in May, we'll make sure she is safe and taken care of.. Would give us all the opportunity (like we shouldn't be doing it already but somehow never seem to) practice our Spanish. Oh.. and you can come too! Jamie
I have nothing to add other than to say that it is super awesome that you would encourage your wife to go to TTR alone, if that's what she desired.
Not a chance here! Regarding super jealous Mexican husbands, my wife has a friend who wanted to join a gym. Her husband wouldn't let her because there might be guys who would look at her body. When my wife suggested she join a female only gym his response was no again.... because there might be lesbians there. My advice for her would be to dump the weird friend and go with the interesting one. Who needs "very old-fashioned religious prejudicial" friends - especially on holiday?
My experiences have told me people who are controlling and jealous too extreme are usually the one's with something to hide. Life is way to short be who you are and if people don't like it fuck em!! You never know when your clock stops, make the most of everything.
We and a group of friends will be there Labor Day week. My wife and I will be Sept. 7-13 with our friends going various days between the Sept. 5th and 14th. So yall come at that time and we can all meet up. We have a great group that meets up from all over.
