You look fantastic, we hate this sort of thing. We are all there to enjoy ourselves and let our inner selves go, we all have jobs and families at home. Temptation is one of the places where we have fun. We appreciate your outfit, hope it does not stop you from wearing it in the future xxx
If I was there I would have been asking where you got it from! Your look amazing and wow I feel sorry for the guys who will be there in may and june when I am as I have gone all out sluttly lol! This is the place to be free and who you want to be, shame some people judge others. We certainly don't and wont be when we are are there, less is more!! Apologies now to folks to who see a little more of me than you would like haha! Lynsey x
We've always had a great time at TTR but this last March was more trashy less sexy. Two instances: About 2-3 in the afternoon we are in the sexy pool, hanging out by the little island on the right hand of the bar. An older woman was talking to a group of drunk young single guys who were in the pool sitting on the ledge right there. She is in a bikini, puts on a jean skirt over her bottoms, proceeds to remove her bikini bottoms, and bends over in front of these guys who then proceed to take turns poking around her nether regions for all the rest of us to unfortunately see. Another time two young girls proceeded to 69 each other right in the middle of the pool, by the hot tubs, with a group of young drunk dudes standing around watching w/ their d--ks in their hands. Both girls were completely nude. Apparently the "no sex in public places" doesn't apply anymore. I am no prude by any means but I think that's just disrespectful to other guests who don't necessarily want to see that. Thats why everyone has a room, take it there if that's what you need to do.
And there was me worring about risky clothes! .... I have more class than that! But do like to wear risky clothes!
We've never been, but it seems like the negativity wasn't coming from CCC peeps! So we should go out of our way to compliment others on how sexy they look! Women and men, it promotes self confidence and may be just what that person needs at that moment. I know my wife is self concious and will change in a heartbeat if she feels uncomfortable. I don't want her or anyone else to feel that way! Stay sexy my friends!
You can always tell there is a judgemental opinion coming as soon as you read the words "I'm no prude but...". Just saying.
I think the conversation is drifting towards the crux of our original post. This arbitrary distinction between "classy" and "trashy" is what we were trying to ferret out. To us, it seems, that Temptation provides the opportunity to test limits...drawing a distinction from someplace like Hedo that provides a "no limit" environment. Temptation provides parameters for behavior, and everyone is encouraged to push those boundaries to see what you can get away with...like having a curfew as a teenager. There's excitement in pushing the envelope. Of course we expect Security (Mom and Dad) to shut things down if we stray too far from the rules. That's the safety of the place, and it's why we begrudgingly cede them that responsibility. But shouldn't we as fellow guests root on the envelope pushers, regardless of the infraction? (Just to be clear, this freedom stops the moment you actively engage us past the point of "No". There is a huge line between expressing yourself and aggressing on others.) Anybody else?
may 7th is my birthday and this is one of the outfits she was looking at ordering from yandy to wear that night with my encouragement too bad our trip doesn't overlap because i know Chris would be right beside you enjoying the freedom that is TTR. Chris looks amazing and i tell her to go for it because life is too short... jealous people who wish they had the confidence to wear something like that can bite me haha (trying to be somewhat polite in what i think about people like that)
I'm one of the first to play slutty, wear slutty and be slutty at home & TTR..... This trips outfits will be 70% smaller and more figure hugging than before. I've played with both men & women in the sports pool after dark and got irritated when security stopped us just at the pivotal moment.......... However 2 things I saw that irked me a bit...... On 2 occasions a certain group of around 6 couples having dinner at a big table in the Asian restaurant would openly be fingering each other, skirts hitched up, legs up in a long chain round the table..... I'm more than happy to see that happening and even join in round the pool and patty o's but it did put me off my chilli prawns in the restaurant..... The staff didn't know where to look! 2nd thing that was kind of off putting....... One wife, quiet little thing, went on the Boobs Cruise, came back hammered and then proceeded to launch herself at as many ladies as she could...... When I say launch herself If you can imagine the Cookie Monster feasting on cereal...... She was face planting the ladies bits and then aggressively eating..... Like a piranha ....... She would then be "playing" with them but I would liken her touch to that of a carpenter sanding a table..... This went on for the rest of her stay, by the pool, in patty os..... People would move when she came near.... I'm all up for girly action, I love the delicate, touching, kissing and caress of my fellow female kind but this woman was scary! I spoke to her husband a few times and he said she had never been with a woman until that Boobs Cruise...... You could tell...... I should have just taken her away and shown her how to relax, calm it down...... At least to start slow and build up to the fury monster act ..... But to be honest the woman scared the bejesus out of me!!!
