Worries about the Swinging lifestyle at TTR

Discussion in 'Temptation Cancun' started by Edward-Alli, Mar 9, 2014.

  1. deb3667

    deb3667 Regular Registered Member

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    That's a good one Donald lol


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  2. Donald

    Donald Devil's advocate Registered Member

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    It was posted on April 1st , I think most people caught on :)
     
  3. Edward-Alli

    Edward-Alli Photofucker Registered Member

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    That is true, most relationships last longer in the lifestyle, as there is alot more communication and trust in the relationship. We are going on 16 years together, as for alot of our vanilla friends are either just got divorsed or seperated lately. Mostly due to non-communication, and not having fun in the relationship, no going on dates, etc. very sad...
     
  4. Mork and Mindy

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    Totally agree with you ,,,, our close vanilla friends dont exactly know we are in the lifestyle but they suspect we are 'different' to them LOL . but in 27 years of marriage we are happier now than ever ,,,,,,, apart from the odd work issue lol
    , but we look forwards to meeting up with our new friends and life i exciting again
     
  5. BCBest2012

    BCBest2012 Enthusiast Registered Member

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    Perfectly said!
     
  6. christy&brad

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    bob!!!!! Lol!!!
     
  7. Jamie

    Jamie Mayor of Temptation Registered Member

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    WHAT????? What the hell!!!!! Aishia told me it was a requirement!!!! I had to beg for lube!!! :icon_evil:

    Damn!

    Jamie
     
  8. bob and kay

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    Christy and I get to swing together....... I want to push
     
  9. Donald

    Donald Devil's advocate Registered Member

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    I,m into pushing
    too,lol
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  10. Stacia_and_John

    Stacia_and_John T&A Tour Guide Registered Member

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    In planning our 15th trip to Temptation (probably Oct. 4 thru 11, y'all), I remember Stacia & I being approached our first time about maybe doing some swapping.

    In a Houston grocery store, not kidding. So, if you can be approached in a grocery store, you can be approached anywere. It means you're hot (or at least your lady is LOL!) and it really is a compliment.

    That being said and with ournot being lifestyle folks (which is actually arguable if you look at "lifestyle" as a continuum like I do, with Vanilla straights and the missionary position only at the far... um.. right? And full-tilt group orgie swappers with either genders and some barnyard animals on the way out there left.....) we're like a 25%.

    Life is short, y'all. Get your fun where you can. If your fun, like ours, is getting mnaked and partying with other like-minded folks in a hot tub, there you go.


    If yours is just hanging out and talking, that's all cool.

    If yours is jumping on a piled up group of oiled bodies squirming around, Do Yo Thang.

    But don't worry about it... worry is a waste of time.
     
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