We will be at temptations later this month and have friends both vanilla and LS who have been to temptations and we get varying responses about being approached by LS'ers. Can I have some opinions on this. We are early 40's and from what I can tell the majority are around our age. We love the nightlife which is a big reason why we are coming. All the regular resorts we have been to are dead after 9pm. We think we are fit and attractive. Especially my wife who is a real hard body.(I want her 6pack). I don't like the idea of offending people or hurting feelings if we are not interested. I know we sound really arrogant here but nothing could be further from the truth we just want to be able to relax without hurting feelings. Or maybe we will accept! Who knows? I personally can't wait to get there but curious about the above. Let me know? Thx
You are going to get a lot of responses stating it doesn't happen a lot and that is correct, but it does happen, just not the way it sounds like you are visioning. People won't just walk up to you and say hey let's hook up! TTR is more about the party and socializing first and foremost. Possibly within that party someone may ask if you are in the ls or what your story or interests are. Typically this could be in normal conversation or after your wife just did a body shot off another lady (just kidding, well kind of). But end result is just answer honestly. No one gets offended or feelings hurt and will likely still want to continue the social party. In your situation (based on the summary above) the most important thing is to have an advanced conversation with your wife so you two are on the same page. Then just get out there and have fun, be open and honest and everything will be just dandy
It's hard to explain...but it just doesn't work like that. What I think you'll find is that you'll be approached A LOT by great, fun, amazing people looking to make new friends. You may never find out if all of them or none of them are LS friendly. If the two of you give off subtle or not so subtle signals you're LS friendly, the conversation may edge in that direction. You may wind up with a dozen LS couples as friends where having a physical relationship never comes up. Don't worry about who is and who isn't. Most couples at Temptation are monogamous couples celebrating an adult Spring Break...who may do things, try things and wear things they normally wouldn't. Don't overthink it too much...just be friendly and engaging and you'll never offend anyone.
In 2 trips to TTR ( 5 total ) It happen once that someone ask us and we just polity declined. Most part of the time you'll not even know.. Because folks aren't running and screaming around that they are in the LS. they will not jumping on your wife either... folks have respect for others!! =)
Just be careful of the stealth swingers. Sometimes you don't realize you've been screwed until you get back home.
thx Thx for the responses so far. Don't get me wrong we enjoy the LS from time to time and may or may not on this trip. That always depends on connections we make. Priority is just to relax in a great atmosphere.
I think it comes down to really where you position yourself, and what type of nutty stuff is going on with the people you are hanging with. If you are in a group and there are lots of body shots, girls kissing, and heavy groping of one another’s partners, then it would be much more likely that someone in that group, or someone afar observing how your are behaving in said group, would ask if you are in the LS. But like others have said, sometimes people just ask in conversation. I wouldn't think that every time you hear the question you are necessarily being propositioned to immediately go back to someone’s room. It is much more of a casual question then it is a sex offering from person you just met. I have only had one experience on my very first day at the resort where it was weird. My wife and I hung out with just one other couple for a long time. After a while it seemed like they just assumed with were leaving together and switching. I think it was their last day, and they were going all in. So they ending up seeming mad they wasted time talking to us when nothing happened. Again it was our first day so we didn't really know how to handle anything. It really wasn't all that big a deal. (Don’t worry it looked like they found what they wanted shortly after). After day one I always found myself hanging with the craziest of groups, and I guess you could assume everyone is LS, but that isn't the case. Casual conversation usually reveals most things, and I don't think anyone’s comfort level is pushed beyond what they want. It isn't very hard to just say no, or just remove the stranger’s boob from your mouth and leave the funhole. The type of people that would ask, aren't really the type of people that judge. And by your original post already saying “Or maybe we will accept!”, sounds like you are already of a strong enough mindset to not be offended, or upset anyone in return.
Many trips and only a couple of offers. Don't worry about it. Sent from my GT-I5510M using Tapatalk 2
