please define "no sexual activity in public"

We've only been to Temptations once, and for only a few days (2014), but while there we didn't see very much pushing of the "no sexual activity in public" boundaries. We don't want to offend the other guests, or get scolded by security, but being very open (but respectful) about our sexuality we would also like to push the boundaries as far as the crowd is comfortable with. We did hit one of the boob cruises (one of the best parties either one of us have ever been a part of), so I guess my question is, how does it compare to the these cruises as far as "naughty fun". We are definitely aware that outright sex in public areas is not permitted at Temptations, but what else is not allowed...

(in as polite and respectful a way as I can verbalize)...

1. are body shots allowed off of ANY part of the body
2. is heavy petting and necking allowable
3. is any oral-to-breast or oral-to-genitalia stimulation acceptable (fiance will hopefully be wearing a peekaboo thong... the two string one with nothing in between that leaves her genitalia completely exposed)
4. is massaging to orgasim permitted

I sincerely hope that this is not coming off as crude or crass, we just want to have a clearer idea of the rules so that we can have as much fun as possible, but while ensuring we don't overstep any boundaries.

Thanks so much in advance for any input.

 

You can try and get away with what you can in public.. But use simple common sense. If it's daylight in a crowd and your wondering, "am I crossing the line?" You probably are. You always have a room.. And ain't nobody gonna frown on what goes on there!!

 

in april 2013 i know there was some underwater BJ's done in the sexy pool that was followed by a little girl on girl action mid day. also some late night water activity in the sports pool was common to see. and deff on the Boob cruise LOL

If i were you deff book a Boob Cruise

 

There have been recent reports of tightening up the rules and reigning the ET staff back in on the nakedness in the games.

TTR is what it is today because its NOT Hedo, and iTs not a Sandle or Couples.

Yes pushing the rules is exciting , but most TTR repeaters don't want a Hedo.

I realize you want to ''respectfully'' push the rules


As far as what you can get away with ,, it changes from week to week.

There are lights now in the sports pool, so they pretty much ''shut'' that down at night.

Body ( naked) shots ,,, again I,ve seen it go on , and other times , seen it shut down.

 

BJ in the Sexy pool? I wouldn't even let that water splash me in the face! We've seen a few couples have sex in the hot tubs in that pool. Hey just don't put a film on the water and I don't care what you do. We actually like watching when people are trying to be discrete a welcome to watch sign would be nice. I've gotten a few hand jobs and seen a few BJs at Patty Os. I hope they don't real in the fun too much

 

its coming .............................to this space soon..................the body fluids in the sexy pool thing again ........watch this space .

 

I think the answer is that nobody knows and it depends. The rules change week to week and I think it depends a lot on the crowd. Seems like they gauge the level of the crowd and then draw the line relative to that. Next week the February Shitshow will be there and there will be trip reports. Now it isn't a big sex in public group, but it will definitely test their rules as far as what is acceptable and what isn't without having the week go sour. Definitely a party group. Should have a better idea after.

 

Like everyone has basically said, it varies from one trip to the next and it also varies according to how discreet you are being while pushing the boundaries. If you are in flagrant disregard of the rules you will get shut down. We have had our fun but if you wan't to cut loose the Boobs Cruise is the way to go. It's exhibitionist friendly.

 

I've seen people discreetly having sex in the hot tubs during the day. I'd say push the boundaries and they'll tell you when it's to much.

 

I was told the white scum floating around was suntan lotion , :bj: