Best advice we can give newbies who just arrived and are feeling very nervous about 'just about everything' is... 1. Don't attempt to drown that nervousness with tons of drinks/shots. Sure some drinks to take the edge off is good but you will want to remember all the fun you are about to experience 2. When your head thinks 'should I really be doing this?' ...the answer is almost always YES. Break free from the world you know and just have fun.
Welcome and we'll be there in 10 days so let everyone know what the theme changes are when you get a chance. Of course, I think everyone will understand if you're having far too much fun to post anything here.
From our 1 time at TTR (Nov 2014), the school girl and lingerie night theme had the best participation. Not sure what themes you have this week, but red night and white night were popular too. It seems the resort themes have more participation (not all visitors to TTR use CCC) Play it by ear, see how things go at PatyO's. Have some drinks, wear what you want, smile, talk to people and dance like no one is watching. Hope you have a great time - it's what you make it. Look forward to hearing about your stay - I'm sure this won't be your last stay !