Friend request with no profile pic/pics

Nicely said!

 

Hi

Hi,
Totally understand. It would be difficult to trust someone who hasnt posted atleast a normal pic.

Unfortunately some of us are in professions where, our association with lifestyle might harm us. Although I should say, we find most people in lifestyle the best friends one can make.

At Desire we made a lot of friends who were just sweet and came from all walks of life.

But its totally cool and understandable to not entertain someone as friend online..cos of no pictures posted. We do hesitate a lot to make friend requests as it would be unfair on our part. Once we actually meet, things are cool.

One thing for sure, people in lifestyle are probably the most tolerant people.

R and J

 

We don't post pictures because one of us has a public job, which we need to keep. I think our friends on here will attest to our legitimacy as CCC true members. Easier to have friends without a picture after one visit. Friends, nothing more, nothing less.

 

After you spend some time on here, it's usually pretty easy to tell the real people from those who have less honorable intentions. I'm usually suspicious when there's a drop dead gorgeous babe (or guy) on the avitar, no other pics and comments that all follow a certain theme. Just a note of warning for those who say they don't care. It's not too difficult to piece together information on this site and discover a lot of personal info about someone rather quickly. There's a real atmosphere of trust at TTR. I'm not so sure that it's wise to operate anywhere online with that same level of trust.

 

Watch out for this guy. I am pretty sure he is full of shit.

 

This is an interesting topic.....I think there are lots of different variables when it comes to this.

I use to have lots of pics on here, but ran into a problem where someone was contacting me through PM.....and it was a little creepy with what they were asking. So I nicely asked them to "fuck off" and took all pictures down except my avatar.

Also, with my career (especially the last two years) I also have to be careful about what I am posting of myself. Not only that but the people that I have become friends with, I feel that I should show a level of respect to them when it comes to pictures.

BUT....I won't lie, I do look at other peoples albums but mainly because it looks like everyone is having so much fun!!

 

We don't post pics because of job. This will be our 2nd time going in May. We made a lot of friends and can not wait to meet more. Had a great time.

 

We have those types of jobs too so we make our albums private so only friends have access. (At least we think so). So in addition to a picture we look for some type of connection before friending. Our pictures aren't all that but then again...

 

I get why some people with public jobs might not post nude pics in their albums...but in this age of nonstop social media...few employers can be so in the dark ages that it would seem logical to discipline good employees for having a life outside work. Posting a pic of yourselves from the shoulders up, standing in front of a palm tree at TTR would really jeopardize your career? Really?

 

Ha ha, this thread still going. Ok M & S, I'll show you my picture already!