Friend request with no profile pic/pics

I give everyone a chance but screw with me and the raft of Monique comes out. I have a bunch that don't have avatars but once you add you can see pics. Facebook is a different story, besides guardian Steve is always here.

 

Got to have a conversation with ya, before accepting.
obviously no probs about avatar image.
But the latest newbie on here blindly churning out a friend request to us gets no response

 

we tend to have no problem with adding friends or accepting friend request, trollers might be disappointed to see our pics, nothing special but just us (fully clothed), unless you are after beauty then their are some pics of my wife... we like when people send us friend request more people we know the more fun it is at Temptation.

 

Steve.......exactly. lol

 

I don't really have many friends, and I don't really get many requests. I guess I am a dork and I must not be funny.

But seriously one thing is that it has to do with the fact that I don't send any friend requests out. My friends are people that I actually know. The other thing is that I don't really have pictures in an album, so I guess there is just no point to friend me. I want to make an album, but the pictures I take always have other people in them (nude and not nude). I don't think it is ok to post pictures of others on a public site that is related to adult content without making sure first, or if I know they are cool with it because they have posted pics of me(which I don’t care about at all if someone does). And just taking pictures and cropping them to only include my wife or myself look pretty stupid. I do put pictures up in posts, but just don't have them in an album.

But to the original topic, I wouldn't take friend requests from someone that didn't have a picture, or I haven't spoken with before. There are tons of people that just stalk profiles for provocative pictures. Which I don't understand because there is porn EVERYWHERE on the internet. Why try to get your rocks off from a site like this?

(I am guiltily of looking at albums of others I am not friends with, but that is because I am just trying to see how much fun they are having on vacation, or if I actually recognize them from a previous trip, or who to look out for on a upcoming one)

 

Your post just stated why most prefer at least some photo that indicates what the person(s) look like. In your case you were able to identify at the resort someone that had behaved rudely because you had seen their picture. Alternatively, if you had a nice communication with someone on the forum, a photo would also assist in picking them out at the resort.
Certainly understand those that simply cannot post a pic, but remember this forum is "not for swingers", Steve has a Forum that is set up for that.

 

Someone must have read my mind. We don't mind people checking our profiles or pics. Maybe someone is headed to TTR when we are? We check out the people who check us out too. Hahaha! We like to party vicariously through others when we're not at Temptation. We've made some friends on here by joining the November Group. But we don't accept friend requests without photos. The ones that really bother us is the people who check out your site, have been a CCC member for a year or 2, and still no profile, no pics or posts. We understand some people have jobs to worry about. But if they think they're here to get their jollies off, or to hook up, well. To us they are anonymous trollers.

 

I agree with you. We have shared our picture privately to people who we either mad friends with on here or who was going the same time. So im not a total spaz I don't mind sharing pictures just not going to have it public

 

I remember this debate two years ago Dynamite. They were all over you. That thread is what made it fun to meet you. Walking up to the fun hole and saying okay who the F is Dynamite? Then you slowly turned around with that look on your face was classic. Then out came the AIWC. Oh, such happy memories.

 

Sorry thought you were asking what other people felt ??

Now , if the person is standing beside their empty chair , holding a camera , by the sexy pool, they are automatically disqualified from friendship .