What would worry me is if nobody thought we were approachable enough to hit up on! As an aside I offer the first time ever it happened was this couple from Florida. So nice! So pretty! I went to fly paper airplanes or throw darts or get humiliated some other way I forget exactly but when I got back to the loungers I said " Hey Lo, what happened to the pretty people from Florida " and she said " they left with a couple from Kentucky! I'm so mad at you! " The moral of this story is "Better to be looked at than overlooked!" or is it "Better to be picked than picked over" or something like that.
After 7 trips we were asked. took it as a complement and continued to party. No pressure and nothing more was said. Anyone (presumably people who have never been there) need not worry. If you are asked and you are not interested. Just say so and continue to enjoy the party.
Maybe we should have some wirstbands that read "AGGRESSIVE SWINGER" !!!! Just to warn the other folks ????
Well... not my bod being that hot, but Stacia's certainly is, see the pics here and at CCS to judge that for yourself. That being said, she's NEVER had a problem with a guy actually getting handsy, and only on a single occasion did a single-guy do anything inappropriate towards her and she stomped it like she would at home. Have we been approached? Sure. It was a compliment and flattering, yes. Did we partake or feel any "need" to do so, some sort of societal pressure to change our basic relationship style to conform? No. Chill, y'all who are intimidated/unnerved/scared. it's just not "like that." it's a party, rambunctious as all get out if you're one of the lucky folks who get a great crowd of peeps on their visit to TTR, but it isn't Hedo's swinger-side.
Even HEDO isn't bad...may just get asked more frequently is all, lol. Mind you, you will see a helluva lot and have to watch your step at night...don't want to trip over people.Unsolicited touching doesn't go over well anywhere and no means no, and yes even at HEDO.