thank you all! This sounds like an amazing place. I joined a forum like this before going to Desire and ended up with 12 friends before I even got there. One guy sent us a gift box of goodies before our departureand I wore a penis shaped necklace upon arriving. Needless to say, everyone recognized us when we got there! I'm so excited to get there! I'm currently stressing over what to get for theme nights and wether or not I can shed 20 lbs before arriving. ( LOL - not going to happen!) Chris and Alicia sent me a list for themes...just gotta put on my creative hat! Which by the way, may be all that I wear once I get there. Thank you again everyone for responding! - Sherry