To be frank, we couldn't care less if you go or do not go. Just being open and honest. And also there is a better way to have a 'discussion'. One last word of advice from this end... life is short. You can't control what other people will do and you can't control everything that happens to you and your significant other in life. But you can control how you handle it. You can control how you respond. You can control whether something upsets you or not. Live life to the fullest and to us that means enjoying everything that TTR has to offer. it is a wonderful place.
It was really more a matter of the being kinda vague about the hotheadedness and concerns over you flipping out and killing someone who looks at her wrong. People gave advice with rather than clarify a little more what you meant you waited with random messages saying you were not going to reply so there was really nothing else to add until you did. So really, what do you think. Are you fine with if someone ever talks to her or are you going to flip out? Do you find yourself getting in fights or in peoples faces at normal bars at home? Those are times where it would probably make sense to not go if so. It could end up bad for everyone. No one needs the angry jealous drunk dude, it just doesn't end well. If you can go and be chill and go with the flow and trust your girl and realize it's an open, flirty atmosphere then you'll be fine.
My husband used to be jealous when we went, now we just let loose and have fun, who cares who is looking at who. We don't share....each other.....and we get hit on ALL the time, but really does it matter? Everyone likes to feel wanted and I say the more the merrier. I mean if a million women want my man more power to them I know he isn't going anywhere so what is the point of being jealous. I love TTR and am so happy we go every year. Everyone needs that attention booster anyway! I think jealousy is every where at every resort, just at TTR the whole vibe is sexual the "less is more" mentality and I think it ROCKS!
[QUOTE=ScoobyDan;654201 There are many as you refer to "hottie's" at TTR. Especially at Halloween. Place is 'HOTTIE' Central.
Are you for real??? Like Jen&Kyle said we could care less if you come or not. But I do love how you play the victim when you get exactly what you've asked for! IF YOU ARE A HOTHEAD NO THIS IS NOT THE PLACE FOR YOU. IF YOU CAN CONTROL YOURSELF AND NOT START FIGHTS WHEN YOUR GIRL GETS HIT ON (AND SHE WILL) THEN COME. Not sure what other "discussion" you're looking for.....
I'd suggest printing this out onto a handy reference card that you can carry for the duration of the stay.
Um, I think only me and Monique said anything about reverse roles of being hit on/groped and, well, I certainly didn't - would have to re-read Monique's to be sure - even suggest you were sexist; I was merely stating an honest question seeing as my husband got WAY more physical attention at TTR. But that could just be because he's very comfortable with his sexuality and gave off a "I don't mind if you touch me" vibe AND no one saw this potentially hotheaded Italian girl slap anyone so. Perhaps you were not referring to my post, in which case, sweet! Glad you saw my point and didn't misread. You can feel free to ignore the above as anything more than a "Vita's snarky remark #750."
I was just about to point out that one tends to be 'yelling' if they use all caps lol. Unless you are Glenn, then that's just normal. I think we've all answered (in some way the original question though). Probably not much point in us beating the dead horse right? Hopefully we all have happy awesome vacations with no drama!
